Why is my ex girlfriend acting this way? Acts like she is happy to see me, but has bf

[Alltheabove1212]

My ex got a boyfriend a month and a half after we broke up. We went no contact and are not "friends". We have mutual friends so she is always at the parties I am at. Last time I got mad, but didn't show it, because she was hanging out with that guy.

 

This weekend, her boyfriend would be giving me looks and when she saw me walk in she smiled and looked happy to see me. I kind of just gave a head nod, then walked by her and gave a "what's up". I know she had her eye on me at least twice that night.

 

She mentioned to her friend that I didn't even say hi to her.

 

But what does she expect? She has a boyfriend.

 

To be honest I still have some feelings, but I'm not gonna waste my time hurting myself with that.

 

Day before the party, she deleted me off twitter and snap chat after sending 3 straight pictures (she sent to everyone on her list anyway).

 

At the party she still tries to be friends with my friends.

 

Am I looking too much into this or is something up?

[all_cats_rgray]

She being super nice because.

 

1) She wants like the attention. To see you jump through the hoops validates her worth. Its its normally un-intentional.

 

2) She feels bad for what went down want to ease her guilt.

 

She is NOT being super nice because.

 

1) She wants to get back together. ( as stated above, she has a boyfriend/ she want to have her cake and eat it too)

 

She expects you to still be her boyfriend and have none of the benefits.

 

I sound bitter but, you don't have to do anything. You don't owe her anything. She does not understand that right now, but one day she will get it.

 

What id do is just say wave hi. and walk on. Show that she hasn't affected you, your indifferent.

 

I prefer the cold approach, it gets under the skin of anyone. But I guess im just the type of person that pretends they are happy and fine, when im really thinking about your head exploding.

[may_girl]

You need to remember if she wants more than what the situation is at the moment, she will make it happen. The occasional 'hello' and smile at a party is not enough to signal she wants anything more.

 

You have done the right thing by not acknowledging her, that's what she wants.