jakelongot Posted May 1, 2013 Posted May 1, 2013 Would you rather: Have as many dates and as much sex as you desire, but never have a relationship that lasts over 3 months or find true love or Know for a fact that you will meet you soul mate and find true love, but you will not have sex up to that point. WHy?
pbjbear Posted May 1, 2013 Posted May 1, 2013 The 2nd I can get companionship from other places which I do. I have alot of friends and have dated very little this past year and this past year has been one of the happiest years of my life. This is going to sound horrible, but alot of men today are not that good in the sack due to being selfish in bed (I swear if I meet another guy who expects blow jobs without returning the favor Im going to turn lesbian), so the vast majority of sex Ive had is not too much to write home about. Im fine just masterbating personally. Also, I value love over random meaningless sex. I suspect most men will pick the 1st option.
sillyanswer Posted May 1, 2013 Posted May 1, 2013 Would you rather: Have as many dates and as much sex as you desire, but never have a relationship that lasts over 3 months or find true love or Know for a fact that you will meet you soul mate and find true love, but you will not have sex up to that point. WHy? We get these posts every so often, and (at least) one option always includes some form of "know for a fact" hypothetical scenario that could never happen in real life because those sort of certainties cannot happen (generally they involve predicting the future). So, I'll answer... but it's impossible to say for sure since one (both, this time!) of the scenarios is clearly just a fantasy. I'll have the sex. Why? Because I like it; because I've had love, soul mates, LTRs before; because you didn't say how long I was going to have to wait for more sex; because in real life rather than fantasy land one of those short-term sexual encounters really could grow into a long relationship, and perhaps that's how I'll meet my (next) soul mate.
Feelin Frisky Posted May 1, 2013 Posted May 1, 2013 It's too late for me to do anything but number 1. I'm already doing number 2 by default.
pbjbear Posted May 1, 2013 Posted May 1, 2013 We get these posts every so often, and (at least) one option always includes some form of "know for a fact" hypothetical scenario that could never happen in real life because those sort of certainties cannot happen (generally they involve predicting the future). So, I'll answer... but it's impossible to say for sure since one (both, this time!) of the scenarios is clearly just a fantasy. I'll have the sex. Why? Because I like it; because I've had love, soul mates, LTRs before; because you didn't say how long I was going to have to wait for more sex; because in real life rather than fantasy land one of those short-term sexual encounters really could grow into a long relationship, and perhaps that's how I'll meet my (next) soul mate. Youve had a soul mate before? I dont think so, wouldnt you still be with them if they were your soul mate?
Treasa Posted May 1, 2013 Posted May 1, 2013 I'll take the Captain Kirk option and just change the answer to be what I want it to be. I don't believe in no-win scenarios. 2
sillyanswer Posted May 1, 2013 Posted May 1, 2013 Youve had a soul mate before? I dont think so, wouldnt you still be with them if they were your soul mate? Well it seemed that way at the time.
Estate Posted May 2, 2013 Posted May 2, 2013 Would you rather: Have as many dates and as much sex as you desire, but never have a relationship that lasts over 3 months or find true love or Know for a fact that you will meet you soul mate and find true love, but you will not have sex up to that point. WHy? Kind of a moot point. Have 1, then 2 when you find the right girl.
Woggle Posted May 2, 2013 Posted May 2, 2013 The 2nd one. Eventually I will be having sex and it will be with somebody I care about so a win win. I am patient man.
Hopeless80 Posted May 2, 2013 Posted May 2, 2013 This is a no brainer for me. I’d much rather have a relationship with a soul mate and not have sex up to that point. I may be in the minority and I guess I’m old fashioned, but for me sex is something very intimate that should only be shared with someone you’re truly in love with. I’d much rather have a best friend to share myself and my life with as opposed to having a revolving door of men just for sex.
Divasu Posted May 2, 2013 Posted May 2, 2013 Know for a fact that you will meet you soul mate and find true love, but you will not have sex up to that point. WHy? Def this. Why? Because random sex is easy. Having superficial encounters isn't fulfilling to me. Love is much more powerful and so is being with someone you care deeply and passionately about who feels the same in return.
Toddbt12y1 Posted May 2, 2013 Posted May 2, 2013 I'll take number 2. The fact being that sex is so much better when with the one you truly love... Besides.....well nvm. 1
crude Posted May 2, 2013 Posted May 2, 2013 There's no such thing as a soul mate. Watch how when a man loses his job his wife suddenly divorces him because her soul mate was just a meal ticket. The average person can fall in love with maybe 1 out of every 6 people, so if they were somehow able to try out 600,000,000 people, they could fall in love with 100 million of them. There's incredible pressure on people to get married, so they do, but it's not really love and that soul mate stuff is garbage. Just like marriages are made in heaven. Ya sure.
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