ttoona Posted May 1, 2013 Posted May 1, 2013 So my ex and I shared a common interest in photography. He came into my life when I was in creativity slump and his photography and insight lifted me. We grew closer over this hobby and he was like a teacher and a mentor to me. Anyway we got into a relationship and he dumped me. We didn't have a fight or disagreement, it just started with him being hot and cold for a week and a text saying we should break up. He didn't answer my call after I had seen the text. I'm a bit bitter about his sudden departure from my life and his refusal to talk to me about it. Anyway, I still follow him on flickr and instagram where we used to interact and share our works. After the break up, seeing his pictures just infuriated me. But now some of the bitterness has subsided and seeing his pictures are still a source of inspiration to me. But is it wrong for me to like his pictures? I know some ex's like their ex's photos on facebook out of spite or to get revenge or attention. I'm not doing it out of spite but because i genuinely like it.... is it wrong for me to do so??
CorridorE Posted May 1, 2013 Posted May 1, 2013 So my ex and I shared a common interest in photography. He came into my life when I was in creativity slump and his photography and insight lifted me. We grew closer over this hobby and he was like a teacher and a mentor to me. Anyway we got into a relationship and he dumped me. We didn't have a fight or disagreement, it just started with him being hot and cold for a week and a text saying we should break up. He didn't answer my call after I had seen the text. I'm a bit bitter about his sudden departure from my life and his refusal to talk to me about it. Anyway, I still follow him on flickr and instagram where we used to interact and share our works. After the break up, seeing his pictures just infuriated me. But now some of the bitterness has subsided and seeing his pictures are still a source of inspiration to me. But is it wrong for me to like his pictures? I know some ex's like their ex's photos on facebook out of spite or to get revenge or attention. I'm not doing it out of spite but because i genuinely like it.... is it wrong for me to do so?? It's not wrong, but I wouldn't do it. People tend to read too much into liking posts and pictures after a breakup, so you should avoid that drama all together. It's fine that you like his work, but he doesn't need to know.
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