Author Kwaters1977 Posted May 1, 2013 Author Posted May 1, 2013 Essentially I met this girl for a month now, had a great first date and we have been texting each other since. She even asked me out for a second date a week ago. For some reason, the convo didn't go well at all. Serious convo with no flirting at all. I could tell she was bored and suggested to leave because I start work early the following day. I texted her to thank her again the same night and she replied the following morning and said see you soon. No more texts from her since. It all sounds like she doesn't want to see me again or I have been friendzoned. Is there anyway I can fix it?
nerd Posted May 1, 2013 Posted May 1, 2013 Most girls expect guy to initiate, even if if they are interested. Call, ask her out
BluEyeL Posted May 1, 2013 Posted May 1, 2013 Yes, you have to initiate and you'll find out if she still likes you or not.
pyramid Posted May 1, 2013 Posted May 1, 2013 Maybe she was in a bad mood. It happens. Keep attempting contact and ask her out again. If she ignores 2-3 in a row, then you're done. 1
Author Kwaters1977 Posted May 1, 2013 Author Posted May 1, 2013 I asked her out again and she said she ll be in town tmr to do some shopping and see if I wanna join. Sounds like I have been friendzoned?
I_Have_Blue_Eyes Posted May 1, 2013 Posted May 1, 2013 I have a similar concern only that the guy I dated has not contacted me. So I contacted him and he has not sugested a new date! I wished my guy contacted me, because he invited me 10min before we meet and I was not ready therefore it felt that I was not prepared and not flirting and being myself enough for him to enjoying the date. I think my guy has lost interest. I would contact her and ask her out, and like the others said- if she does not reply, let it go! Good Luck.
Author Kwaters1977 Posted May 1, 2013 Author Posted May 1, 2013 I have blue eyes, it sounds like the guy doesn't even want to know you as a person anyway? But in my case I just don't feel any sexual tension at all. Well I'm gonna see her tmr but not having any high hope tho
I_Have_Blue_Eyes Posted May 1, 2013 Posted May 1, 2013 mmm, i guess. I have tried to stop and move on. But atleast your a decent guy who want to try and work it out. Hope it goes well for you.
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