frederickkk Posted April 30, 2013 Posted April 30, 2013 bumped into her. told her ex girlfriends been in touch, she hates it, goes through my phone. concerned about me going on holiday with two female friends of mine she always hated,in shock about it. asking about my inheritance, what im doing with it. takes her jacket off, asks if i think she is fit, wants validation. tries to get my teeshirt off. then leaves my life again. thoughts anyone?
Derpderpleton Posted April 30, 2013 Posted April 30, 2013 Sounds like this chick is nuts. I think you're better off..
thefooloftheyear Posted April 30, 2013 Posted April 30, 2013 Sounds like this chick is nuts. I think you're better off.. Agree... How long has it been since you have seen her? When was the breakup? TFY
fiftyofsomethin Posted April 30, 2013 Posted April 30, 2013 Damn..... well I'll just tell you that I'm glad that I didn't date her.
Darren Steez Posted April 30, 2013 Posted April 30, 2013 any more thoughts anyone? What is the question?
Renard99 Posted May 1, 2013 Posted May 1, 2013 (edited) My thoughts are that, even if you couldn't avoid bumping into her, you should not engage her in the amount of communication that you do. By all means, if you're forced to be together temporarily, be polite and as civil as possible........ but going through your phone, trying to take off your shirt off and asking about your inheritance? None of her business, she's over stepping her boundaries and you appear to be letting it happen. You need to be strong in those circumstances and, unfortunately, from the sounds of things you were happy for her to lead you on. I agree with the others as well when they say she sounds a little strange. Having said all that above, I appreciate you've been absolutely positive that you won't ever stop until you get her back, despite masses of advice to the contrary over many months, so I'm sure you just need to 'bump' into her more. Edited May 1, 2013 by Renard99 2
TaraMaiden Posted May 1, 2013 Posted May 1, 2013 Oh Good Golly.... My 'Failure' is back...... Originally Posted by frederickkk any more thoughts anyone? I think you should move. Country. 1
Author frederickkk Posted May 3, 2013 Author Posted May 3, 2013 yeah absolutely ruined again. nothing has changed about me since the breakup. i have 3 months in a gym now. 3 months of reading. go from there. move on with my life. and fk her off. i have never felt so emotionally drained and tired in my life.
Author frederickkk Posted May 3, 2013 Author Posted May 3, 2013 in all honesty, i dont wish to find love, nor have another relationship ever again. all i carry is hope. i wont properly let go inside.
Sav Posted May 3, 2013 Posted May 3, 2013 HOLY MOLY. Welcome back :'D...you should know what our thoughts are. It's just a question of what YOU are gonna do
CarrieT Posted May 6, 2013 Posted May 6, 2013 should i wait or move on? Can you count how many times and how many people have told you to move on? Why do you keep asking the same question when you already know the answer?
McDonald Posted May 6, 2013 Posted May 6, 2013 should i wait or move on? You said the last time you saw her was in September, and your asking if you should wait or move on??? I dont know the whole story but i feel like with what you just said sums it up.
cavalier99 Posted May 6, 2013 Posted May 6, 2013 Can you count how many times and how many people have told you to move on? Why do you keep asking the same question when you already know the answer? Cmon CarrieT you know the answer to this. Because its fun! Weeeeee. Cav 1
Zahara Posted May 6, 2013 Posted May 6, 2013 Keep waiting since you seem to love doing it and have zero sense to do anything otherwise. Stop asking the same damn question.
TaraMaiden Posted May 6, 2013 Posted May 6, 2013 should i wait or move on? Wait. There will be a bus along in a minute. Please be on it. Single, not return.
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