mattboltz Posted April 30, 2013 Posted April 30, 2013 My gf and I have been dating for about 3 months and now. We are in a LDR but she won't call me, or open up about her past. She loves it when I call her, but she says she feels annoying when she calls me. When we are together, she wont make any moves physically, and she wont verbalize her feelings towards me. I know other guys have hurt her in the past but its frustrating to me. Will she eventually open up to me? anybody else have any experience with something like this? Thanks
strozzap Posted April 30, 2013 Posted April 30, 2013 Yes my girlfriend is introvert and her behavior is similar to yours. They don't like to be pressured into speaking but if you give them time and truly listen to them without interrupting they tend to open more easily She doesn't verbalize her feelings but shows them with the way she acts. Do you prefer a hug or to hear the words "I love you?"
Author mattboltz Posted April 30, 2013 Author Posted April 30, 2013 I guess I would rather have the hug, but every once in a while words are nice
Author mattboltz Posted April 30, 2013 Author Posted April 30, 2013 so you just listen and wait? You don't ever bring it up as an issue?
Jbum5 Posted May 1, 2013 Posted May 1, 2013 (edited) Although the LDR aspect may be concerning, your girlfriend is indeed introverted. She also likely wants you to be the man in the relationship by initiating and taking control of every aspect including contact. That's not to say she's any less interested in you; it could be temporary because she wants you to prove your dedication towards her and the relationship, or it could be pervasive because that was the way she was brought up. Either way, you need to give it time and effort if you want it to possibly work - 3 months is short. Edited May 1, 2013 by Jbum5
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