MoreThanThat Posted April 30, 2013 Share Posted April 30, 2013 I had the first date with the guy I mentioned in a couple of other threads. We've known each other almost 5 months online and have gotten closer over the past 6 weeks. Daily contact via texts, phone calls, Skype, etc. The rapport was pretty much the same meeting. We went to a nice restaurant for dinner. We were both early - him a bit before me and he'd ordered some appetizers to come when I arrived. My friend I'm staying with here both dropped me off and picked me up. We hugged at both hello and goodbye. I sent him a text when I got in saying thanks. He continued with texts over the next couple hours until sleep. No change in tone. I hate over analyzing but I'm doing that here. I've only done serial relationships and the dates I have gone on with men I didn't end up in relationships with were with people I really wasn't into. (An attempt to get outside of comfort zone and try new things.) We're both going to the same conference this weekend and he confirmed that I was going when we said good night. I'm usually someone that just throws myself into things that I do. With men, it is "on" until things don't work anymore. I don't get the "rules" of things now. I don't know how to interpret if this is a friend thing or more and how to adjust myself accordingly. I know I do like him enough that I'd LIKE to see where this could go. Argh! What now? Just wait to see what he says/does? Link to post Share on other sites
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