Noma Posted April 30, 2013 Posted April 30, 2013 Me ex broke up with me just over 2 months ago. It's hard. I want to be able to move one. I want to learn from this and not repeat mistakes I made with him. I am working to become a better me. My biggest trip up in the past is to let go of the pain and hurt. I know that we are not together anymore, and I believe it's ok to miss him. But what has always been hard is to not hold on to the searing pain that "is the last part of us". This time I will be different. I still have fleeting moments of pain, but I refuse to focus and hold on to it. I beat it down, focus on something else and move on. I've been doing pretty good with this the last week or so. I still love him. And I miss him. But I want to let go of the hurt. We aren't "us" anymore. If I'm not able to heal, and get myself back, no one will want me. 1
nerdlingZA Posted April 30, 2013 Posted April 30, 2013 Good to know u have been doing well for the last week or so , you should carry on with NC I know its hard but carry on untill you become attracted to someone else , don't date someone whom you not attracted to cos that will be considered as "rebound relationship" , when u become attracted to someone else u'l know that u 100% over your Ex , it took me 4months to get over my Ex , now I don't even want her back even if she comes back I won't take her back ,u doing good within just two months
Author Noma Posted April 30, 2013 Author Posted April 30, 2013 Thing of it is, I see my ex 3-4 times a week. We run a restaurant together.
nerdlingZA Posted April 30, 2013 Posted April 30, 2013 I see my Ex everyday , we in the same school! But I'm over her , u'l get of him trust me give it time
Author Noma Posted May 1, 2013 Author Posted May 1, 2013 What's weird is everyone says you need NO contact to make it happen. I worked with him again tonight. And now that my mind is set on it, it gets easier every day!
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