zero_pistons Posted September 22, 2004 Posted September 22, 2004 I dont know why, but i have some ideas... I'm short, I'm shy as hell, I lack confidence, Im ugly... whatever I have never had a real relationship....no im not a virgin but the girls i seem able to get are either really dirty or fugly...i have had a girlfriend since i got to college, that lasted like 6 days when it turned out she was a dirty slut, i know my problem is that i try to read too much into people and care way too much about what everyone thinks.....all i wan t is a cute girl who i can enjoy spending time with and want to see everytime. hey my car is the one love that will never leave me, right? btw the hair is now gone (im bald.) please be honest, no bull**** to make me feel better if the pic wont work its here. http://www.teamfc3s.org/forum/attachment.php?attachmentid=25106
Papillon Posted September 22, 2004 Posted September 22, 2004 Dude, double-you tee eff is up with the mohawk? You look dumb. And no, you're not ugly, not in the least. But I suspect the mohawk is making you look like a bad boy badass and that's skeering the honeys away.
DerangedAngel Posted September 22, 2004 Posted September 22, 2004 I lack confidence There's your real problem. And you're not the only one that has it. I'm not the most confident girl you'll ever meet, but I'm working on it. Confidence is a very attractive quality. What do you like about yourself? -Deranged
Barby Posted September 22, 2004 Posted September 22, 2004 Yes confidence is something that attracts people to one another, you are not ugly by any means...the hair is interesting but since you said you're bald...that's even better. I think each and every one of us (even the prettiest/most handsome people deal with self esteem issues). Look at DA she's very beautiful (i'm straight NOT hitting on her) But even she admits to having confidence issues... Me being overweight and obviously not too blessed in the "looks" department I've dealt with self confidence issues my entire life (24 years) and now I'm at a point that I feel like if someone doesn't want to know me cuz of how i look, well fu%k em it'll be their loss not mine... Like DA said find all the things you like/love about yourself and build on that!
moimeme Posted September 22, 2004 Posted September 22, 2004 when it turned out she was a dirty slut What, exactly, does that mean?
Jilly10340 Posted September 22, 2004 Posted September 22, 2004 Aside from the hair I would say you're pretty cute...
Jilly10340 Posted September 22, 2004 Posted September 22, 2004 Also, you have to have some confidence. There's nothing less attractive then a guy bashing himself. I think that girls are attracted (at least I am) to confident guys. Confident, but not cocky. There's a fine line. I dated this guy for about three weeks. He was fun, funny, cute, sweet, everything you could ever want in a guy. But I was just turned off because he had very low self-esteem and constantly insulted himself. You can be insecure, it happens to everyone, just don't show it all the time.
YellowLioness Posted September 22, 2004 Posted September 22, 2004 one of my exes was short, (I thought he was cute) and very talented, but he always had something really negative to say about himself, and that got to be a real turn off. We did end eventually, but not because of that, though. I think you're a cute guy. Just work on the confidance thing, and don't date the first girl that shows interest in you. The reason I say that is that if you meet a nice girl, and you happen to be with a skank, then she's not going to give you a second look. She'll think that a) you're just looking for some poon and b) that you're nasty yourself. Other then looks, what do you look for in a girl? Obviously you don't like sluts. lol. But what else? Do you like girls who are into cars, who are really laid back, do you like someone who will take charge? I'm not asking for myself, as I am engaged. I just think it's always helpful to know what kind of qualities you like in partners so you can weed out the bad before they have a chance to take root in your life. Don't get so desperate that you'll date just anyone.
Jilly10340 Posted September 22, 2004 Posted September 22, 2004 I agree with Lioness. You could afford to be a little picky...
Author zero_pistons Posted September 22, 2004 Author Posted September 22, 2004 like I said the mohawk is gone. I only had it for 2 days. And only because last weekend I drank too much and found the clippers in my neighbour's dorm. Anyways, I see where you are coming from but I have a really hard time telling if someone is interested. And I fear rejection. And know I shouldn't. But still do. I say my ex is a dirty slut because she is. She has been with 4 guys since she got here 3 weeeks ago. I like girls who take charge. because i dont like to wonder if she is into me. that is probably not good. I probably shouldnt worry about that.
Jilly10340 Posted September 22, 2004 Posted September 22, 2004 Three weeks ago? And she's already your ex? That was fast... What do you mean by a girl who "takes charge"?
alicia24 Posted September 22, 2004 Posted September 22, 2004 i have really good taste in guys. you are very cute, however the hair looks silly. but thats just my opinion
Jilly10340 Posted September 22, 2004 Posted September 22, 2004 I think we've given him enough crap about his hair
savethedrama4allama Posted September 22, 2004 Posted September 22, 2004 In my opinion: 1. You are HOT. 2. Quit calling girls dirty sluts. Even ones who are. If you disrespect her, you'll likely disrespect me also. Respect women and you will attract them. 3. Try not to worry about girls finding you attractive or not. Focus on the things that you like to do. This will build self-confidence and will also display it which will attract more women. Good luck!
savethedrama4allama Posted September 22, 2004 Posted September 22, 2004 What is your definition of short?
re3rocks Posted September 22, 2004 Posted September 22, 2004 ur a bad ass. i saw a dude at school looks just like you, hes the pimp of the school. seriously.
Jilly10340 Posted September 22, 2004 Posted September 22, 2004 I think he kinda looks like Matt Damon without hair. That's all good in my book
Author zero_pistons Posted September 22, 2004 Author Posted September 22, 2004 Originally posted by Jilly10340 I think we've given him enough crap about his hair which is GONE!!!!!! lol. I'll try and find a pic of me with hair....
Jilly10340 Posted September 22, 2004 Posted September 22, 2004 Ummmmmmm, yeah. Seeing the other side of your face would be nice too
Author zero_pistons Posted September 22, 2004 Author Posted September 22, 2004 Originally posted by savethedrama4yrmama What is your definition of short? im between 5-6 and 5-7
Author zero_pistons Posted September 22, 2004 Author Posted September 22, 2004 Originally posted by Jilly10340 I think he kinda looks like Matt Damon without hair. That's all good in my book thats funny because a few people here thinmk so too......"SCOTTY DOESNT KNOW"....matt damon in eurotrip with no hair is what ive been told.
Author zero_pistons Posted September 22, 2004 Author Posted September 22, 2004 there are some with me and my car on this page. http://www.teamfc3s.org/forum/showthread.php?threadid=30866&highlight=mk+II+supra+me these are from a year ago. BTW I know I look dumb with a hat.
Jilly10340 Posted September 22, 2004 Posted September 22, 2004 So a few people have commented on you Matt Damon likeness and you're complaining about being ugly? Do you feel better now? All these girls in this thread telling you that you're a cutie?
Author zero_pistons Posted September 22, 2004 Author Posted September 22, 2004 you kan "kinda" look like a movie star and still be ugly......my mom looks like sean connery.
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