budd98 Posted September 22, 2004 Posted September 22, 2004 My ex broke up with me 2.5 months ago because she fell out of love with me and had feelings for someone else. We dated for almost 3 years. She is 22 and I am 24. I really loved that girl and treated her perfectly. Anyways, to sum these past couple months up, I have tried to move on. I never contacted her during that time and then out of the blue I get a call a few weeks ago. She told me she missed me and that every song reminded me of her. She said I sounded different and very motivated. I was out with friends so I said that I had to go. She tried calling a few minutes later, but I never answered. Then 2 days later I picked up all of my stuff from her place and have no ties between us anymore. We live 180 miles apart. I still remain strong and have'nt contacted her at all. Then 2 days ago I get a text from her saying "Heard you were in town" and that was it. I never responded. I don't know how she found out I was there. I was only there one night for work. Anyways, I am just curious what is going on in her head right now? Why would she send a message like that to me? Is she just trying to get a reaction, or get something out of me? Should I respond to it? Any advice would really help me out.
kiwi29f Posted September 22, 2004 Posted September 22, 2004 I think it depends on your feelings for her. Do you still love her? Do you still want to be with her? If the answer is no then leave it as it is, why not still be friends as long as you didn't have a nasty breakup. If the answer is yes, then talk to her. She might have realized the grass isn't greener on the other side. You don't have to get back together right away, talk about the problems you had in the past & what led to the breakup. Also you live a long way away from each other which is a whole different situation, would you be able to trust her, would she be able to trust you while you were apart. Can you deal with not being able to see her for long periods of time? That part of the whole situation would be the hardest with me. Do you think you could have a future with her? 3 years isn't a short period of time to be with someone. I hope you figure this thing out & everything work out for the best.
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