Jadedbyluv Posted April 30, 2013 Posted April 30, 2013 I've been casually dating this guy for the past few months. We get along great and have a lot of fun together. However, he recently admitted he is hesitant to get too involved because of his last relationship. I wasn't sure how to take it exactly. He didn't say he was totally against anything, just things being serious right now. On my side, I'm fine with taking things slow. I just don't want to be a hook up. I'm starting to like him more and more. I'm starting to worry though that this isn't really going anywhere and I should end things before I catch any real feelings. Should I talk to him about it again? Should I tell him how I feel? I don't want to freak him out either.
shiver23 Posted April 30, 2013 Posted April 30, 2013 Talking is always good. If you feel unsure about his intent, the best thing to do is ask. I think this guy is just trying to keep things from getting too much, too fast. If he states that he doesn't expect things to progress into serious territory at all, then you're best walking away. Good luck. 1
Maneater Posted April 30, 2013 Posted April 30, 2013 I know you want an answer now and that is how most of us are. If you can do it, I'd wait another month to bring it up again. I think if you play your cards right, this guy will commit but just don't be pushy about it. good luck!
Silly24 Posted April 30, 2013 Posted April 30, 2013 I don't know how old the OP is...but at my age, these things need to be discussed early on so that both parties can decide to continue or move on. Let's not waste eachothers time.
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