Sookie1 Posted April 30, 2013 Posted April 30, 2013 I've been friends with this guy for 3 years now. In the beginning there was an attraction. Our friendship sort of became affectionate, cuddling for an entire night, sending sweet texts like "I miss you" or "I love you" randomly. Of course, I asked him if he had feelings for me, but he said "I did at first" and kinda left it at that. Our friendship progressed into staying over his place and making out and getting really sexual. We never actually had sex, I feel that would be too awkward and I'm not ready to do that. He never tried to have sex with me either. He allows me to give him hand jobs and bjs, though. None of us really made any attempts to try to have sex, if he did try, I would accept it maybe, but he never really showed any interest in having sex with me. I feel like he feels the same way, it'd really ruin the friendship. Anyway, it seemed like we just used each other for affection and getting rid of our sexual frustrations without actually having sex, so I figured we were FWBs. A month after we started the whole inviting me to his room thing, we went to the mall to hang out. He did something to piss me off and I kind of ran off instead of being rude to him and he looked all over for me. He finally found me and apologized for acting stupid. He forced himself on me and started to kiss me. I felt a little uncomfortable, because we weren't in his room, and we didn't really plan this out. It was very unexpected. I pushed him off me and he gave me a hand to help me up, then pulled me onto his chest and we hugged. We then kissed very passionately and I felt a "spark". I've never felt that way before. I said I loved him and he said it back, but then he started to play with my tits and we went back to making out and the spark was gone. We walked back to his car and we held hands. He opened the car door for me and continued holding my hand in the car and kept kissing my hand while he drove. When he dropped me off, I said I didn't want to go home, but he told me he was meeting up with friends and I needed to go. He then unlocked my door and walked me to my front door. He asked for a hug and I rejected him and told him I was too tired. I was just upset he wouldn't spend more time with me, but I didn't hold it against him. He hasn't been initiating any conversation with me lately, which isn't weird cause he only talks to me once a week, but I expected more from him. What's he doing? He's not using me for sex, but I don't feel like he likes me that way because you'd want to spend lots of time for someone you felt that way about, right?
insertnamehere Posted April 30, 2013 Posted April 30, 2013 I kind of ran off instead of being rude to him You seem to be unclear on this concept of what "rude" is. Hint: running off is being rude.
Author Sookie1 Posted May 1, 2013 Author Posted May 1, 2013 You seem to be unclear on this concept of what "rude" is. Hint: running off is being rude. Well, he took a picture of me naked without my consent, and I was so angry that I just went outside to calm down. I knew that if I said anything to him, it'd turn into a huge fight. I have a very bad temper, but I usually control it by walking away. It's not very nice, but I don't know how else to deal with it.
Author Sookie1 Posted May 1, 2013 Author Posted May 1, 2013 Maybe he's tired of your immaturity. Maybe. .
Author Sookie1 Posted May 1, 2013 Author Posted May 1, 2013 that's nasty.bwjs and stuff. I think its clear its not a match but you keep forcing it to become one. and bot of you just want to sex.but are acting. you already went to far with him. so its imposible to let him take you serieus now. stop the messy stuff. respect ypurself. That's really harsh, but I agree with you. I think I am forcing it...I'm doing all this hoping something will develop, but why would it when I'm giving him what he wants for free? Thank you for your response, it's really a great feeling when someone else says what you've been thinking. I feel like you just confirmed my thoughts. 1
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