Maneater Posted April 30, 2013 Posted April 30, 2013 I seem to have miscommunication issues with men or they are just crazy. hahah. Needless to say, I had a drunk hook up with a guy I met 3 months ago. He continually text me and tried to meet with me in the past couple months but I was talking to a long distance interest. And things were left awkward because I inadvertently called his penis small. He appeared to have gotten over that... The night after we hooked up this weekend, I ran into him with his friends the next night. I told him the night before I wanted to keep 'us' private, not because I'm embarrassed of him but we live in a small city and people talk. So he waved and smirked at me when we were in our respective groups of friends. It sucks it looked bad, because I was with all guys. I'm not interested in any of them and the one has a gf who left early. After he left the bar alone, I text him - 'Have a good night, it's a small world' He has not text me back at all! He always does. Do you think he thought I may have left the bar with someone else since I didn't ask him to meet up later???
Author Maneater Posted April 30, 2013 Author Posted April 30, 2013 "It's a small world", ROFLMAO!! OMG, that was probably not the right thing to say! How do I always do that? Ok, besides that. What do you think of the scenario with not asking him to meet later?
ComeUpOutDaWahta Posted April 30, 2013 Posted April 30, 2013 He should run the other way from you. You are the problem. Not him. Nailed it. You, Maneater, are what most guys would call "poison." I feel like I'm getting too close to you just by posting in this thread! 3
Author Maneater Posted April 30, 2013 Author Posted April 30, 2013 Calling me poison is a little harsh don't you think? I was in an awkward position and didn't want to appear as the stalker girl in public. 1
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted April 30, 2013 Posted April 30, 2013 This situation is playing out as it should. 2
ComeUpOutDaWahta Posted April 30, 2013 Posted April 30, 2013 Calling me poison is a little harsh don't you think? I was in an awkward position and didn't want to appear as the stalker girl in public. So you text him as he leaves the bar alone? Damn! Girl knows how to twist a knife. Guy most definitely regrets that drunken hook-up. You know how hard that is to make a guy do?
Author Maneater Posted April 30, 2013 Author Posted April 30, 2013 So you text him as he leaves the bar alone? Damn! Girl knows how to twist a knife. Guy most definitely regrets that drunken hook-up. You know how hard that is to make a guy do? What is wrong with texting him after wards? Men complain when women are too clingy or act jealous and crazy. HE COULD have text me and I would have been to his place in a second. Why is it all on me?
Author Maneater Posted April 30, 2013 Author Posted April 30, 2013 Accidentally saying he has a small penis ? Are you socially inept ? What if he called you fat, oh sorry it just slipped out. How would you feel. I am glad this guy left, you are a disrespectful immature toxic individual. He can do so much better. Maybe his penis isn't small, but your (()) is just too cavernous. You should hear the entire side of the story first. I attempted to give him a COMPLIMENT. He said I was really small down there, then I said - yes you're the perfect size for me. If you read my previous posts, I really do like small penis'. THAT'S all I said!
ChessPieceFace Posted April 30, 2013 Posted April 30, 2013 I inadvertently called his penis small. Cardinal rule = broken
Author Maneater Posted April 30, 2013 Author Posted April 30, 2013 He is not the one that insulted her. Why don't you read her original post. I would chastise any gender that treated someone that way. I love people who are committed to gender wars. This woman was wrong period. Communication issues, that is the least of her problems. And he has problems to, mainly for being a puppy dog. It was really just a foot in the mouth comment that was truly supposed to be a compliment. I hadn't hooked up with anyone for a year and I was really excited to find a hot guy with a small penis. PLEASE inquire about the entire story before placing judgement.
Author Maneater Posted April 30, 2013 Author Posted April 30, 2013 Cardinal rule = broken did you read my recent replies? He said I was small down there and I said he was the perfect size for me. I really meant as a compliment as I've broken up with men because they're too large.
SJC2008 Posted April 30, 2013 Posted April 30, 2013 OMG, that was probably not the right thing to say! How do I always do that? Ok, besides that. What do you think of the scenario with not asking him to meet later? Yeah how do you do it? When you got your flu shot what did you tell him "It didn't hurt, just a small prick"? lol! I couldn't resist. 1
sid3 Posted April 30, 2013 Posted April 30, 2013 You should hear the entire side of the story first. I attempted to give him a COMPLIMENT. He said I was really small down there, then I said - yes you're the perfect size for me. If you read my previous posts, I really do like small penis'. THAT'S all I said! Pretty sure you were posting about long distance guy being super hung. I seem to recall reading he was sending you pictures of his junk prior to your meeting him. Gueesing the wedding is off. 1
Archgirl Posted April 30, 2013 Posted April 30, 2013 Jeez guys! Back the hell off OP before I have to spank the lotta ya OP do you want him to text you? I'm betting he's having second thoughts about your level of interest - being out with a group of all guys and then telling him you want to hide your association prolly crushed his poor lil...ego.. Text him something dirty - he'll reply and go back to normal pretty quickly 2
Author Maneater Posted April 30, 2013 Author Posted April 30, 2013 Pretty sure you were posting about long distance guy being super hung. I seem to recall reading he was sending you pictures of his junk prior to your meeting him. Gueesing the wedding is off. Yes too large. Nice guy. He may be flying out here again but I wouldn't want him to waste the time or money. We're obviously not exclusive right now Just taking things slow.
Author Maneater Posted April 30, 2013 Author Posted April 30, 2013 Jeez guys! Back the hell off OP before I have to spank the lotta ya OP do you want him to text you? I'm betting he's having second thoughts about your level of interest - being out with a group of all guys and then telling him you want to hide your association prolly crushed his poor lil...ego.. Text him something dirty - he'll reply and go back to normal pretty quickly Thank you! I don't know why people are assuming I'm some ball busting biatch. I had a slip of the tongue. Yes I'd like to talk to him again. Sounds like I have to throw myself at him. Good plan 1
Radu Posted April 30, 2013 Posted April 30, 2013 I like the combination of original post, with emphasis on the incident mentioned in the OP, and your username.
Radu Posted April 30, 2013 Posted April 30, 2013 Thank you! I don't know why people are assuming I'm some ball busting biatch. I had a slip of the tongue. Yes I'd like to talk to him again. Sounds like I have to throw myself at him. Good plan If you saw a guy you liked with a gaggle of girls laughing and having fun, after he told you he wanted to keep your association a secret, what would you think ? It's good you figured this one out, but here's another warning. The whole interaction seemed to me [if i was in his shoes] that he was being taken for a ride and you wanted to keep your options open. In the future, try not to be so hot and cold. Contact him, explain that they were friends, that you want more than friends with him. PS: I understand the small town mindset quite well, everybody knows everybody's business.
Archgirl Posted April 30, 2013 Posted April 30, 2013 Thank you! I don't know why people are assuming I'm some ball busting biatch. I had a slip of the tongue. Yes I'd like to talk to him again. Sounds like I have to throw myself at him. Good plan Don't worry, I'll be the ball-busting biatch. As usual Well I wouldn't recommend actually throwing yourself at him. Just via text - remind him of the assets he's sampled and just how gooood they were.:bunny: I bet he starts texting like crazy again, especially if you throw in a line about being sorry for the awkwardness that night and thank him for being so cool about it (sneaky huh? sorta gives him little option but to be cool about it ). 2
StanMusial Posted April 30, 2013 Posted April 30, 2013 I don't understand how the thread title relates to the thread content. 2
Buttercup84 Posted April 30, 2013 Posted April 30, 2013 I do not see how your penis comment was an insult ? He should feel good about it ! And do not let the others make you feel bad. 1
Geiss Posted April 30, 2013 Posted April 30, 2013 It sounds like you are playing games with this guy and he doesn't know what to think. Plus if it was me I would be pretty pissed off about a comment like that. Slip of the tongue, I don't care, that is something you don't say to a guy unless you want to hurt him. Especially if it is true. Then you are hanging out with a bunch of guys and being secret with this "relationship". I would be out of there. It's no wonder he isn't calling you back. Or texting or whatever. That's pretty cruel. I don't care if you are in a small town, let people talk. It's not cool what you are doing. 1
Treasa Posted April 30, 2013 Posted April 30, 2013 I seem to have miscommunication issues with men or they are just crazy. hahah. Needless to say, I had a drunk hook up with a guy I met 3 months ago. He continually text me and tried to meet with me in the past couple months but I was talking to a long distance interest. And things were left awkward because I inadvertently called his penis small. He appeared to have gotten over that... The night after we hooked up this weekend, I ran into him with his friends the next night. I told him the night before I wanted to keep 'us' private, not because I'm embarrassed of him but we live in a small city and people talk. So he waved and smirked at me when we were in our respective groups of friends. It sucks it looked bad, because I was with all guys. I'm not interested in any of them and the one has a gf who left early. After he left the bar alone, I text him - 'Have a good night, it's a small world' He has not text me back at all! He always does. Do you think he thought I may have left the bar with someone else since I didn't ask him to meet up later??? I'm not afraid of Archgirl OR being spanked. In fact, it's been too damn long since...er, anyway. Ok, so if I have this straight: You hooked up with him, inadvertently insulted him (I get what you were trying to say, but men can be sensitive), didn't do much about his texts for three months, hooked up again, and now are upset because he didn't respond? Sweetie, he isn't your boyfriend. You hooked up twice, and he was trying to text you for three months. Maybe he went home to someone. Maybe he wasn't interested. Chances are you weren't or aren't on his mind as much as you think you are. Just let it go, or next time do more work on your side to make someone feel wanted and appreciated. I have to side with the guys on this one. I wouldn't have texted you back, either. 5
Treasa Posted April 30, 2013 Posted April 30, 2013 And you young lady are my favorite loveshack poster. I'm not afraid of Archgirl either. You had me at "young lady." 4
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