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HoneyBadgerDontCare Established Member

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No, it's not as bad as genocide, but neither is cheating...and we all seem to agree that cheating isn't a good thing, right?

 

This isn't as bad as cheating either.

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ShannonMI Established Member

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I'm not saying you should give him another chance. I think you're perfectly right for breaking it off with him. Sh*t, I would break it off with a girl if she did that to me.

 

If he was my friend, I would tell him he's an idiot with bad game. Because those kinds of things don't get the girl.

 

But you do seem quite judgmental. I "seem like the type" because I'm disagreeing with you? Hmmmm.....

 

I just think you're getting all crazy upset over an extremely insignificant event in life lol.

 

I'm not saying it because you disagree with me. People disagree all the time. I just call it like I see it. I also see you at the type to label girls "crazy" when they get upset over something. If I'm "crazy" for getting upset over a guy I like sending me a pic of some chick he just boned, then I'm bat sh*t f*cking crazy and proud of it. If I laughed this incident off and continued to talk to the guy that would be better, I suppose. Or less "crazy".

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I'm not saying it because you disagree with me. People disagree all the time. I just call it like I see it. I also see you at the type to label girls "crazy" when they get upset over something. If I'm "crazy" for getting upset over a guy I like sending me a pic of some chick he just boned, then I'm bat sh*t f*cking crazy and proud of it. If I laughed this incident off and continued to talk to the guy that would be better, I suppose. Or less "crazy".

 

At least we agree on something.

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Its not bad if you don't send that sh*t out!! Just keep it for yourself to enjoy.

 

I'm a firm believer in not having any home made pornographic images on mobile devices or computers. It's really never worth the risk.

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This is a good point. I don't think even I would pull a stunt that stupid.

 

UNLESS....and here's the caveat....I didn't really like the girl and she was bugging me and I just wanted to drive her away. Then, that's an acceptable tactic.

 

I wasn't bugging him. He text me first after days of not communicating. I wasn't chasing or harassing him. That's what I don't get. I WAS leaving him alone.

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I'm not inferring that you were. Only stating why I would throw sh*t in somebody's face.

 

Yeah and he pursues me not the other way around. When he's in town visiting his family, HE texts me to hang out. Half the time I don't even realize he's in town and I'm surprised. So he could totally avoid me if he wanted to.

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I guess if I did that, I might also be throwing out the three-way feelers.

 

Either way, I wouldn't sweat this guy. Move on...no big loss.

 

I thought about that too because I can't really think of any other explanation.

 

I'm moving on. I won't give this clown the time of day when he comes back around and I'm sure that he will.

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Ok so I haven't started a thread in a long time. Something strange happened to me today and I'm just wondering WHY and I guess I need to vent.

 

So there is this guy that I've been seeing. He is from NYC and he has family upstate where I live. When he comes up to visit his family he makes a point of getting together with me. We arent dating or a couple. Just taking it slow I guess. Now I haven't had sex with this guy yet. We kiss, grope each other a bit and hold hands and that's it so far. Its all very high school. I go to dinners with this family and hang out with them when he's up visiting. So I would say I'm the type of girl "you bring home to mom" or at least a girl to respect. He hasn't been pushy with regards to sex so I thought he was a good guy. I think I'm dead wrong.

 

Today I get a pic of him thru text message. He's a very attractive guy so of course I respond with "oh love your sexy pic, send me another one." So he sends a picture of him in bed with a naked girl. The girl is topless laying on her stomach with her @ss out. He's got his hand on her butt. I was floored. I said "a naked girl?" "That wasn't what I thought you would send me." So he has the nerve to say "hahahaha I'm in the pic too." I ended the exchange with "don't send me anything else, I'm good." He didn't respond after that.

 

Soooooo what the F*CK??? I'm so confused and grossed out!!! Why send me a picture like that? I was thinking maybe he sent it so I would leave him alone, but he messaged me first! Randomly. We don't communicate everyday, so for him to send me a picture of himself first and then THAT one was odd. Anyone have any ideas? Just curious. I'm done with this dude. I'm just wondering why a man would do that to a girl he seemed to respect. I'm beyond confused.

 

 

Hahahahahahaha this happened to me!!

 

In the middle of sending me a series of "fun" pics he sends me a very similar one to the one you describe.

 

I gave him so much sh*t about it - like really ridiculing him, that he ended up totally back pedalling and explaining:

 

"All chicks are bi". "They like looking at picture of chicks just like guys do". He "thought it would get me hot". Pffft! :rolleyes:

 

I went on a date with him, he was very insistent, he said he had to meet the chick that would give him hell like that. As the evening progressed it became a lot clearer why he had this peculiar notion of female sexuality:

 

He was a total d*ck.

 

He preferentially didn't date, just had a few FB's on the go. He also liked them young and eager to please sexually - preferentially 18-19. I figure none of his lil chicks had ever had the nerve to tell him what they preferred and just went along with him.

 

Needless to say I ran up his bar tab doin fancy shots and left in the middle of the "date" to go dancing with my GF's instead (and coincidentally met a strapping young navy dude - but that's another story) :laugh::laugh:

 

Anyways, I reckon give him a miss. It doesn't say a lot about his understanding of women. He's probably a crap date.

 

Best o luck! :)

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Hahahahahahaha this happened to me!!

 

In the middle of sending me a series of "fun" pics he sends me a very similar one to the one you describe.

 

I gave him so much sh*t about it - like really ridiculing him, that he ended up totally back pedalling and explaining:

 

"All chicks are bi". "They like looking at picture of chicks just like guys do". He "thought it would get me hot". Pffft! :rolleyes:

 

I went on a date with him, he was very insistent, he said he had to meet the chick that would give him hell like that. As the evening progressed it became a lot clearer why he had this peculiar notion of female sexuality:

 

He was a total d*ck.

 

He preferentially didn't date, just had a few FB's on the go. He also liked them young and eager to please sexually - preferentially 18-19. I figure none of his lil chicks had ever had the nerve to tell him what they preferred and just went along with him.

 

Needless to say I ran up his bar tab doin fancy shots and left in the middle of the "date" to go dancing with my GF's instead (and coincidentally met a strapping young navy dude - but that's another story) :laugh::laugh:

 

Anyways, I reckon give him a miss. It doesn't say a lot about his understanding of women. He's probably a crap date.

 

Best o luck! :)

Not all chicks are bi hahahaha what a stupid bastard!! Im Strictly dickly and will always be. He didn't give me that lame excuse. Just the "but I'm in the pic too" which is BY FAR a much more ridiculous and stupid response.

 

I've been on dates with him and he seemed so great. Well now I know and good thing!! I'm sure he'll contact me again and be shocked and confused when I reject his @ss. He'll pull the "but we weren't in a relationship so whats the problem?" Bullsh*t. And to that I can only say he knew I liked him and it was rude and classless to send me a pic like that. Have a nice life!!!

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Don't even answer his text if he contacts you. Silence will do the trick for that prick. Hey that rhymed. This kind of happened to me once. Different situation but it was done out of spite.

 

Yes silence speaks volumes. I could totally understand sending the pic out of spite or revenge. Not that that is ok by an means but it's more UNDERSTANDABLE. There was no spite or bad feelings with this guy. Everything was cool. He did it to get me jealous or to try to get me excited. Silly boy. I was grossed out and now think he's a low life. I'm thinking he didn't want THAT reaction but it is what it is.

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Send that picture to his mother so she will also know what a fool he is.

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ShannonMI Established Member

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Send that picture to his mother so she will also know what a fool he is.

 

I deleted it along with all his other texts. I deleted him out of my phone as well. I'll say something cutting to his mother and she'll get the message loud and clear. I'm a bitch who has a way with slicing and dicing verbally. I'm looking forward to it actually.

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Not all chicks are bi hahahaha what a stupid bastard!! Im Strictly dickly and will always be. He didn't give me that lame excuse. Just the "but I'm in the pic too" which is BY FAR a much more ridiculous and stupid response.

 

I've been on dates with him and he seemed so great. Well now I know and good thing!! I'm sure he'll contact me again and be shocked and confused when I reject his @ss. He'll pull the "but we weren't in a relationship so whats the problem?" Bullsh*t. And to that I can only say he knew I liked him and it was rude and classless to send me a pic like that. Have a nice life!!!

 

I've got a waaaay better idea! :bunny:

 

When he texts next, send him a pic of you and another guy then tell him to have a nice life coz you sure are :laugh:

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It's just crazy how you think you know someone and they do something so completely off the wall you are baffled. And I mean BAFFLED.

 

Well...

 

One way to look at it is that before this you thought you knew him and didn't and now you are certain you do know him. What you can never be sure of is true certainty. That's just life. At least it is no secret any more.

 

Some people are just plain crazy, as far as conforming to societal and cultural norms. Sometimes some pretty ordinary people, people just like us, do some pretty crazy things that defy understanding, including, on reflection, our own understanding.

 

Whether he is really like that and just felt safe enough to let his true character slip to see what your reaction would be, or just miscalculated, badly, you will never really know.

 

Sending the pic of him in bed with another woman would have to be some really bizarre miscalculation to qualify as a mere misjudgement, so I would assume that it was quite intentional for whatever purpose. It wouldn't be the way I would test any woman's boundaries, nor would it be my first choice of action if I wanted to put an end to things. So, who knows?

 

What I do find disturbing is the over-reaction to it. Scum are people who are child-molesters, people who psychologically, physically and sexually abuse women. This guy merely qualifies as as an inadequate dick, at best. May I plead for a bit of sane perspective here? I always feel better when experiencing sanity from others. Over-played hyperbole is just so inauthentic.

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Since there was an incursion by a disruptive poster and some members, including the thread starter, chose to engage them and subsequent to private communication from the thread starter and a cleanup of the thread, it will now remain closed to posting.

 

When encountering disruptive posters on our forums, the sure-fire way to lose your posting privileges is to engage them and depart from our guidelines of forum decorum. Okay, two members banned and two members moderated. Have a nice day.

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