Totally disgusted

[ShannonMI]

Soon, this will be a funny cocktail story to pull out. Not right now, but soon.

 

Yeah this sh*t is conversation worthy for sure. It's just too ridiculous.

[Star Gazer]

Have you rejected him recently?

[HoneyBadgerDontCare]

Ok so I haven't started a thread in a long time. Something strange happened to me today and I'm just wondering WHY and I guess I need to vent.

 

So there is this guy that I've been seeing. He is from NYC and he has family upstate where I live. When he comes up to visit his family he makes a point of getting together with me. We arent dating or a couple. Just taking it slow I guess. Now I haven't had sex with this guy yet. We kiss, grope each other a bit and hold hands and that's it so far. Its all very high school. I go to dinners with this family and hang out with them when he's up visiting. So I would say I'm the type of girl "you bring home to mom" or at least a girl to respect. He hasn't been pushy with regards to sex so I thought he was a good guy. I think I'm dead wrong.

 

Today I get a pic of him thru text message. He's a very attractive guy so of course I respond with "oh love your sexy pic, send me another one." So he sends a picture of him in bed with a naked girl. The girl is topless laying on her stomach with her @ss out. He's got his hand on her butt. I was floored. I said "a naked girl?" "That wasn't what I thought you would send me." So he has the nerve to say "hahahaha I'm in the pic too." I ended the exchange with "don't send me anything else, I'm good." He didn't respond after that.

 

Soooooo what the F*CK??? I'm so confused and grossed out!!! Why send me a picture like that? I was thinking maybe he sent it so I would leave him alone, but he messaged me first! Randomly. We don't communicate everyday, so for him to send me a picture of himself first and then THAT one was odd. Anyone have any ideas? Just curious. I'm done with this dude. I'm just wondering why a man would do that to a girl he seemed to respect. I'm beyond confused.

 

You get what you pay for when you go mostly on looks. I know because I do the same thing. I would say about 75% of the really good-looking people I've met are batsh*t crazy (both men and women).

 

Good luck!

[Imajerk17]

I'm just astounded that this thread reached 80+ replies. The things on this forum that draw people's attention...

 

Yeah he's totally a horrible person. I betcha he kicks puppies and cuts in front of old ladies too...

[ShannonMI]

Still makes no sense. He's only ever sent me pics of himself alone. Never with a chick or whatever. He had his hand on the girls @ss. It was totally intimate. And he made a point to tell me the guy in the pic was him. I couldn't even see his face in the pic but he had to tell me it was indeed him.

 

It's neither here nor there. I'm convinced he did it to get a rise out of me or to make me jealous. It's done nothing but turn me off.

 

Have you rejected him recently?

 

I haven't hung out with him recently. The last time we hung out his brother was hanging out with us. There was no time for an sexual advances or rejections.

[ShannonMI]

I'm just astounded that this thread reached 80+ replies. The things on this forum that draw people's attention...

 

Yeah he's totally a horrible person. I betcha he kicks puppies and cuts in front of old ladies too...

 

It is pretty interesting actually. You don't hear of such things happening every day.

 

Yes a horrible person. A total scum bag.

[HoneyBadgerDontCare]

It is pretty interesting actually. You don't hear of such things happening every day.

 

Yes a horrible person. A total scum bag.

 

LOL. So dramatic.

 

I would say a horrible person is someone that commits genocide, not someone that sends a picture of himself having sex with someone else to a girl that he's dating.

[TheBigQuestion]

I really think he sent that picture to the wrong person and then tried to play it off.

 

He's obviously not suitable LTR material, but he's hardly the worst person in the world for doing this.

[Imajerk17]

It is pretty interesting actually. You don't hear of such things happening every day.

 

Yes a horrible person. A total scum bag.

 

Breaking News: Man sends Woman inappropriate picture! Story at 11...

[2sure]

LOL. So dramatic.

 

I would say a horrible person is someone that commits genocide, not someone that sends a picture of himself having sex with someone else to a girl that he's dating.

 

Yes youre right of course. He's way worse than horrible.

[ShannonMI]

I really think he sent that picture to the wrong person and then tried to play it off.

 

He's obviously not suitable LTR material, but he's hardly the worst person in the world for doing this.

 

It would have been better just to be up front and say "oops accidentally sent that to you." It still would have been annoying but a little more understandable then "yeah I'm in the pic too, girl!!"

 

I'm not saying he's the worst person in the world. He's just a jerk. Or is the word "jerk" too dramatic to use? Because apparently "horrible" only applies to people that commit murder.

[ShannonMI]

I think he this was his immature way of passively getting back at you for not sleeping with him. Like "hah" look what I can get by sending you that pic. Not tasteful, very boyish like, you are better off without someone like that.

 

You sound like you were very into him. Certainly one picture couldn't of sent you reeling.

 

I was into him and he knew it. Now I'm NOT into him. And it was all over one picture. Yeah it's just like that.

[Imajerk17]

Im actually wondering how he got that shot in the first place. I mean the girl in question HAD to know she was getting her picture taken...

[ShannonMI]

Breaking News: Man sends Woman inappropriate picture! Story at 11...

 

Inappropriate isn't even it. It's the fact he knows I like him and I'm a nice girl. It was like slapping me in the face. Totally uncalled for.

[TheBigQuestion]

Im actually wondering how he got that shot in the first place. I mean the girl in question HAD to know she was getting her picture taken...

 

It seems like everyone nowadays has homemade porn on their phones. It's such a monumentally bad idea.

[ShannonMI]

Im actually wondering how he got that shot in the first place. I mean the girl in question HAD to know she was getting her picture taken...

 

The girl looked like she was sleeping. Her face was turned away from the camera. So I'm sure she didn't know. That's even more disturbing.

[ShannonMI]

It seems like everyone nowadays has homemade porn on their phones. It's such a monumentally bad idea.

 

Its not bad if you don't send that sh*t out!! Just keep it for yourself to enjoy.

[ShannonMI]

Some of the men excusing this guys behavior really disturb me.

 

Yeah it's totally no big deal!! So the guy is a bad person for sending the girl he's dating a pic of him boning someone else?? Only people that commit genocide are horrible people!! I would totally high five this guy. He's the man!!!

 

I agree there are worse things going on in the world and people committing heinous crimes. I just started this thread to see what people thought of this guys actions. Nothing more. I didn't want sympathy or anything. Just curious as to what would possess an otherwise nice guy to do such a thing. My conclusion is he is not a nice guy and now I know. Thank God.

[HoneyBadgerDontCare]

Yes youre right of course. He's way worse than horrible.

 

If you think that sending a naked picture of yourself to someone is worse than genocide, then it says something really bad about you as a person.

[ShannonMI]

Shannon, pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and clear your mind of this gutter snype. Your a very good looking young lady. I am sure you will find someone who suites you and respects you.

 

Thank you

[HoneyBadgerDontCare]

Yeah it's totally no big deal!! So the guy is a bad person for sending the girl he's dating a pic of him boning someone else?? Only people that commit genocide are horrible people!! I would totally high five this guy. He's the man!!!

 

I agree there are worse things going on in the world and people committing heinous crimes. I just started this thread to see what people thought of this guys actions. Nothing more. I didn't want sympathy or anything. Just curious as to what would possess an otherwise nice guy to do such a thing. My conclusion is he is not a nice guy and now I know. Thank God.

 

I'm not saying I would high five him. I don't think it's a good idea to send pics like that.

 

At the same time, on the grand scheme of things, it's not a big deal at all.

[ShannonMI]

I'm not saying I would high five him. I don't think it's a good idea to send pics like that.

 

At the same time, on the grand scheme of things, it's not a big deal at all.

 

So you think I blew things out of proportion and I should give this guy another chance? Dude, it's a deal breaker. I will never speak to this fool again and with good reason. Or is my reaction too dramatic? I guess its cool for men to sh*t all over women and objectify them.

 

And you totally would high five this guy. You seem like the type.

[KraftDinner]

No, it's not as bad as genocide, but neither is cheating...and we all seem to agree that cheating isn't a good thing, right?

[HoneyBadgerDontCare]

So you think I blew things out of proportion and I should give this guy another chance? Dude, it's a deal breaker. I will never speak to this fool again and with good reason. Or is my reaction too dramatic? I guess its cool for men to sh*t all over women and objectify them.

 

And you totally would high five this guy. You seem like the type.

 

I'm not saying you should give him another chance. I think you're perfectly right for breaking it off with him. Sh*t, I would break it off with a girl if she did that to me.

 

If he was my friend, I would tell him he's an idiot with bad game. Because those kinds of things don't get the girl.

 

But you do seem quite judgmental. I "seem like the type" because I'm disagreeing with you? Hmmmm.....

 

I just think you're getting all crazy upset over an extremely insignificant event in life lol.

[ShannonMI]

No, it's not as bad as genocide, but neither is cheating...and we all seem to agree that cheating isn't a good thing, right?

 

No cheating, in the large scheme of things, is no big deal either.