Totally disgusted

[ShannonMI]

Just glad your post isn't titled "Does he deserve another chance?" So sorry. Hmmmm, maybe we could inundate him with pix of our own?

 

Ugh hell no. I can't even stomach the thought of this guy now. If he wanted to gross me out, he succeeded.

 

I was TOTALLY thinking of sending him a d*ck pic hahahaha I have a few from my ex in my phone still. Send it and say "yeah his is WAYYYYYY bigger then yours"

[ShannonMI]

If his Mom asks why you are not coming around anymore, tell her to ask her son. Don't give the details because you will just look like you care. Indifference is best.

 

Like he would tell her what he did. I think telling her why I'm so disgusted would be satisfying. She thinks he's just the greatest guy ever. Not so much.

[StanMusial]

Ugh hell no. I can't even stomach the thought of this guy now. If he wanted to gross me out, he succeeded.

 

I was TOTALLY thinking of sending him a d*ck pic hahahaha I have a few from my ex in my phone still. Send it and say "yeah his is WAYYYYYY bigger then yours"

 

Uh, why are guys sending you nudie pics and pics of their genitalia?

[Poppy fields]

Like he would tell her what he did. I think telling her why I'm so disgusted would be satisfying. She thinks he's just the greatest guy ever. Not so much.

 

Oh, I know he will not tell her. I just think it will give him an ego boost to know you were bothered by it. Because guys like that get off on that sort of thing. Unfortunately.

[crude]

This just confirms to me that if a guy isn't really pushing for sex, it's not because he's a gentleman like women think, but because he's getting it elsewhere. He can wait it out and add any new women to his rotation gradually.

[ShannonMI]

Uh, why are guys sending you nudie pics and pics of their genitalia?

 

We dated for 2 years. It wasn't a fling. At one time we were in a long distance relationship. You gotta do what you gotta do sometimes when you can't be with the person your dating.

[ShannonMI]

This just confirms to me that if a guy isn't really pushing for sex, it's not because he's a gentleman like women think, but because he's getting it elsewhere. He can wait it out and add any new women to his rotation gradually.

 

Very true. Great point actually. I never thought about it like that.

[dreamingoftigers]

We dated for 2 years. It wasn't a fling. At one time we were in a long distance relationship. You gotta do what you gotta do sometimes when you can't be with the person your dating.

 

In my province, a large percentage of the men work on the oil rigs in the North on rotating schedules.

 

I wouldn't be surprised if I lived in the "Dick Pic" Capital of Canada.

Cellphone companies should run a special here or something.

[ShannonMI]

In my province, a large percentage of the men work on the oil rigs in the North on rotating schedules.

 

I wouldn't be surprised if I lived in the "Dick Pic" Capital of Canada.

Cellphone companies should run a special here or something.

 

Yeah it seems totally normal for guys to send along their junk thru text messages. I've received a few. Sometimes it's well received and sometimes it's not.

[William]

Did a little editing. Next time a troll is smelled, please don't engage them, rather report them to moderation. No reports at all were received on this thread. I just happened to stop by. Thanks.

[sillyanswer]

Sometimes it's well received

 

This bit (yes, I know I quoted it totally out of context) answers the question of why do guys send these pictures and other pics like the one you referenced earlier.

[ShannonMI]

This bit (yes, I know I quoted it totally out of context) answers the question of why do guys send these pictures and other pics like the one you referenced earlier.

 

A dick pic is a bit different then a "look at me...I just plowed this chick and here is her @ss". THAT pic was not going to be well received and unless this guy is a complete and utter dope, he should have know that.

[carhill]

Since you and he weren't dating and weren't a couple and have 'made out', for lack of a better phrase, on a few occasions, and he's 'very attractive', it follows that his behavior is normal for him in such circumstances. The young lady in the photograph, and others, aren't 'disgusted', at least not sufficiently to abstain from sexual relations with him so he's having an enjoyable time. He disgusted you so won't be, presumably, engaging you anymore but will merely move on to the next young lady. Billions more to be served and photographed. He does what he does.

[sillyanswer]

A dick pic is a bit different then a "look at me...I just plowed this chick and here is her @ss". THAT pic was not going to be well received and unless this guy is a complete and utter dope, he should have know that.

 

I'm guessing it wasn't the first time he sent that photo to someone. It wasn't well received by you (and good for you!) but I'm sure it's been just fine with some of his correspondents.

[ShannonMI]

Since you and he weren't dating and weren't a couple and have 'made out', for lack of a better phrase, on a few occasions, and he's 'very attractive', it follows that his behavior is normal for him in such circumstances. The young lady in the photograph, and others, aren't 'disgusted', at least not sufficiently to abstain from sexual relations with him so he's having an enjoyable time. He disgusted you so won't be, presumably, engaging you anymore but will merely move on to the next young lady. Billions more to be served and photographed. He does what he does.

 

But why throw it in my face? That's what I dont get. If the lady in the photo had received such a pic would she have had sex with him? Who knows. Maybe she's that "type" of girl. I'm not that type and he knows it so why do something so uncalled for to ME??

[ShannonMI]

I'm guessing it wasn't the first time he sent that photo to someone. It wasn't well received by you (and good for you!) but I'm sure it's been just fine with some of his correspondents.

 

Yeah like his guy friends??

[carhill]

But why throw it in my face? That's what I dont get. If the lady in the photo had received such a pic would she have had sex with him? Who knows. Maybe she's that "type" of girl. I'm not that type and he knows it so why do something so uncalled for to ME??

To see if you're up for his MO. To take it to the 'next stage'. He sounds pretty smooth, TBH. I missed how long you and he have been interacting...how long was it? From reading, I got the impression it was awhile.

[ffw]

Ok so I haven't started a thread in a long time.

 

Welcome back. How's life going? Maybe he wanted to show his skills or perhaps what future can bring.

[Star Gazer]

Since you and he weren't dating and weren't a couple and have 'made out', for lack of a better phrase, on a few occasions, and he's 'very attractive', it follows that his behavior is normal for him in such circumstances.

 

I assure you that there are millions of very attractive men who make out with girls who DO NOT send them pictures like the one this guy did. So how does it assume that it's normal for him or ANYONE under the circumstances?

[carhill]

Because it's already in evidence, counselor. I go with what the OP provides.

[ShannonMI]

To see if you're up for his MO. To take it to the 'next stage'. He sounds pretty smooth, TBH. I missed how long you and he have been interacting...how long was it? From reading, I got the impression it was awhile.

 

Since Thanksgiving. So awhile. I've hung with the family so I'm not this ho bag girl that would get my kicks off seeing what he sent me. Well I got the MO message loud and clear and I'm passing. Maybe that's what he was hoping for.

[carhill]

Since Thanksgiving. So awhile. I've hung with the family so I'm not this ho bag girl that would get my kicks off seeing what he sent me. Well I got the MO message loud and clear and I'm passing. Maybe that's what he was hoping for.

That makes sense. That this came seemingly 'out of the blue', prior to you engaging in any genital sexual activity, indicates he has a personal pattern of behavior. You've known him over five months. That's a long time.

 

I'll be curious to see if he contacts you again. My bet is, some time will pass, and he will.

 

 

It sucks when people disappoint one like that. Wish there were some way of preventing it in advance. Good luck.

[ShannonMI]

Welcome back. How's life going? Maybe he wanted to show his skills or perhaps what future can bring.

 

Well it will be a future without me. He won't be taking pics of MY @ss and sending them to whomever he fancies. He totally ruined everything with that "smooth" move.

 

I've been better. That's all I can say.

[ShannonMI]

That makes sense. That this came seemingly 'out of the blue', prior to you engaging in any genital sexual activity, indicates he has a personal pattern of behavior. You've known him over five months. That's a long time.

 

I'll be curious to see if he contacts you again. My bet is, some time will pass, and he will.

 

 

It sucks when people disappoint one like that. Wish there were some way of preventing it in advance. Good luck.

 

I'm sure he will contact me again. When he's back upstate and he wants to hang out. I'll be unavailable.

 

Disappointment is an understatement. I'm repulsed and disgusted.

[ffw]

I'm sure he will contact me again. When he's back upstate and he wants to hang out. I'll be unavailable.

 

Disappointment is an understatement. I'm repulsed and disgusted.

 

 

Repusion is unwholesomeness. Let it go. Tomorrow will be a new day & a new beginning. Every end is a new beginning.