wanderingnights Posted April 29, 2013 Posted April 29, 2013 Last week a girl I met online and I met for the first time in person. The date went really well and we both agreed we should get together again. Currently, we have agreed to go out again this weekend on a second date. Here is my concern though, and perhaps I am over-thinking things...I don't hear from her as often as I expected. By hear from her I mean, since we took things offline and have each other's phone number, I expected to at least get a "how are you" or "what are you up to" text or something once in awhile and I haven't at all. In all fairness, we have very different schedules. I work a normal "9-5" and she works 12-hour nights. Obviously that means she is usually sleeping during the day and to make things worse, I never know exactly what nights she is working. We briefly talked this weekend and I asked her if she would like to go out again. Her reply was that she "would definitely like to." I also sent her a text today just to tell her I was excited to see her on Friday to which she said she's "excited to hang out too." Now, she is a very pretty girl and I'm sure she gets plenty of interest, if not dates, especially through online dating and I know 1 date absolutely does not mean we a thing. Plus, on her days off I know she has a life of her own. She obviously doesn't ignore my calls or texts and I know everyone is different, but I just sort of expected to hear more from her unsolicited. Am I over-thinking this? Is this something I shouldn't even be worried about at this point?
ITw Posted April 29, 2013 Posted April 29, 2013 Relax. It's only been 1 date. You asked her out and she agreed to go on a 2nd date, right? You're doing great. Everything else will come with time. 1
pyramid Posted April 30, 2013 Posted April 30, 2013 Many girls don't like to initiate texts. As long as she's replying to yours, you're good! Keep contacting her regularly.
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