flashx80 Posted April 29, 2013 Posted April 29, 2013 This is what we've said through text: Me: Hey (name), this is (name). I met you at the Culture Night. It was nice meeting you today. Anyways right now I'm going sing in front of the stage. Watch I'm going to make a disaster ?? Her: Haha, no! Make it amazing! Think positive! Me: Well I was told I had a high pitch voice. What can I say? By the way thanks for coming to the Culture Night. I hope you enjoyed it. I'm sorry you couldn't see me sing. Her: Yeah, we did! Maybe next time. Let me know if your club does similar events. 3 more weeks of school! Me: We actually have a club at Tahoe 1027 between 4:30-5:30 on Tues? Would you be interested joining the club? We'll similar event next Spring. Heck yah! Long semester is finally over! Got any planning over the summer? Her: Id love to but i'm taking the next semester off. I have to focus on getting my investment licenses this year. Going to Hawaii this year. You, any plans? Me: You slacking...just kidding. I haven't been to Hawaii for so long. In fact, I went there in Dec 2001. It was absolutely amazing! Where in Hawaii are you staying at? Hopefully I can get intern job at either Sheriff or Police Department. I'm also going to Reno for Tae Kwon Do tournament Her: Wow, you have a busy summer! Black belt? I'll be in Oahu. Haha, I figured it's better to learn & earn @ the same time. No slacking in my field! Me: You just have to find out later if I'm black belt or not lol. With that being said, you seem like an awesome person and I would like to get to know. What is your schedule like this week? Would you be interested in grabbing a coffee with me at Java City? She hasn't reply for 3 hours. Anything wrong what Ive said?
Blastoplast Posted April 29, 2013 Posted April 29, 2013 Don't look too far into it. I didn't respond to my first date's last text for 4 hours after she sent it because I have bad reception in my apartment. Technology can suck sometimes!
Author flashx80 Posted April 29, 2013 Author Posted April 29, 2013 At least is there anything wrong with that text right?
cheww13 Posted April 29, 2013 Posted April 29, 2013 she's not interested in seeing you. you did nothing wrong in the texts..it just she's not that interested in meet up. I'm sorry but she sounds like myself lol I'd reply to a guy's texts for just being kind, but if he asks me out and i'm not interested, I just ignore it..or give him excuses. when a random guy asks for my number, i usually give them out. not because im interested, but I feel bad.. I know its wrong..haha I'm really bad at making up a fake boyfriend, so I just tell the truth I'm single and they obviously ask for my number then I just give them. but then she replied your texts tho...because my case I don't bother reply them at all lol maybe she's just busy. wait n see, but most likely she's not interested..
Author flashx80 Posted April 29, 2013 Author Posted April 29, 2013 When I met her she touched my left shoulder twice. We talked to each other pretty close, but then we couldn't hear each other because we were listening to a band. She even told me her ex-boyfriend used to live at the same city where I went to college. One thing I noticed is that she texted me at 11:20pm last night after I texted her at 10pm. That tells me she's willing to text me late at night. But you're right she could be just kind
fortyninethousand322 Posted April 29, 2013 Posted April 29, 2013 Yeah it sounds like your text got lost in cyberspace. Which is to say it was purposely ignored. If you ever saw her and asked about it weeks from now she'd likely say she never got the text, etc. Which would let you save face and let her give the appearance of not avoiding a potential "issue" as it were. There are many women who are just bad at rejecting men and bad at confrontations. So, there you go...
ScreamingTrees Posted April 29, 2013 Posted April 29, 2013 she's not interested in seeing you. you did nothing wrong in the texts..it just she's not that interested in meet up. I'm sorry but she sounds like myself lol I'd reply to a guy's texts for just being kind, but if he asks me out and i'm not interested, I just ignore it..or give him excuses. when a random guy asks for my number, i usually give them out. not because im interested, but I feel bad.. I know its wrong..haha I'm really bad at making up a fake boyfriend, so I just tell the truth I'm single and they obviously ask for my number then I just give them. but then she replied your texts tho...because my case I don't bother reply them at all lol maybe she's just busy. wait n see, but most likely she's not interested.. See, I would get pissed off at you for wasting my time.. The ****ty part is, I'd probably look like a lunatic for prefacing any approaches with "please don't waste my time, if you're trying to be polite, I don't need it, don't give me your number unless you want to."
Author flashx80 Posted April 29, 2013 Author Posted April 29, 2013 See, I would get pissed off at you for wasting my time.. The ****ty part is, I'd probably look like a lunatic for prefacing any approaches with "please don't waste my time, if you're trying to be polite, I don't need it, don't give me your number unless you want to." Yah I hate that. If a girl gives me her numer I always think maybe she is interested. If you don't then why waste mine and your time? The purpose for guys to get girls number is so they can set up to get a date.
ScreamingTrees Posted April 29, 2013 Posted April 29, 2013 Yah I hate that. If a girl gives me her numer I always think maybe she is interested. If you don't then why waste mine and your time? The purpose for guys to get girls number is so they can set up to get a date. Well, unfortunately, telling it like it is would probably not help, they'd probably give it anyway just to ignore you when you call.. Why, I have no clue, they could just say "no thanks" and it'd be over and done with, no questions asked, no bad blood, nothing.
Estate Posted April 30, 2013 Posted April 30, 2013 This is what we've said through text: Me: Hey (name), this is (name). I met you at the Culture Night. It was nice meeting you today. Anyways right now I'm going sing in front of the stage. Watch I'm going to make a disaster ?? Her: Haha, no! Make it amazing! Think positive! Me: Well I was told I had a high pitch voice. What can I say? By the way thanks for coming to the Culture Night. I hope you enjoyed it. I'm sorry you couldn't see me sing. Her: Yeah, we did! Maybe next time. Let me know if your club does similar events. 3 more weeks of school! Me: We actually have a club at Tahoe 1027 between 4:30-5:30 on Tues? Would you be interested joining the club? We'll similar event next Spring. Heck yah! Long semester is finally over! Got any planning over the summer? Her: Id love to but i'm taking the next semester off. I have to focus on getting my investment licenses this year. Going to Hawaii this year. You, any plans? Me: You slacking...just kidding. I haven't been to Hawaii for so long. In fact, I went there in Dec 2001. It was absolutely amazing! Where in Hawaii are you staying at? Hopefully I can get intern job at either Sheriff or Police Department. I'm also going to Reno for Tae Kwon Do tournament Her: Wow, you have a busy summer! Black belt? I'll be in Oahu. Haha, I figured it's better to learn & earn @ the same time. No slacking in my field! Me: You just have to find out later if I'm black belt or not lol. With that being said, you seem like an awesome person and I would like to get to know. What is your schedule like this week? Would you be interested in grabbing a coffee with me at Java City? She hasn't reply for 3 hours. Anything wrong what Ive said? Um, yeah, lots wrong with it... Here's how to text any girl you're interested in: You: "Hi X, This is Z from <that place> earlier. How's it going? (or how's her day, or how was the show, whatever is relevant here)" Her: "Hi Y! Yeah it was great, etc, etc, etc." GREAT SHE REPLIED SO YOUR IN WITH A GOOD SHOUT You: "How does grabbing a drink this Thursday sound... I really want to check out <some place>, meet me there at 8?" Her: "Yes... etc, etc, etc." Then MEET HER! Jeez, what the heck is with the text conversations, you just kept droning on and on with NO POINT to it, she just got bored of replying. You kept texting about meaningless random stuff and after 10 texts still didnt ask her out... I mean, if I was a girl, and random guys were doing this with me I'd be bored to death, especially if I was texting a few guys and they were all this lame and I had to keep up with their boring questions over and over and over. It takes, 2 text message... ask her out!
Author flashx80 Posted April 30, 2013 Author Posted April 30, 2013 (edited) Well apparently she just texted back to me and told me she's available Weds and Thurs. I guess I read too much into it. With that being said, when I meet up with her to grab a coffee would it be good to hug her even though I just met her, or wait until I get to know her better? Edited April 30, 2013 by flashx80
cheww13 Posted April 30, 2013 Posted April 30, 2013 See, I would get pissed off at you for wasting my time.. The ****ty part is, I'd probably look like a lunatic for prefacing any approaches with "please don't waste my time, if you're trying to be polite, I don't need it, don't give me your number unless you want to." One of the reasons why I started this way was sometimes there are creepy guys who either keep talking to the girl trying to get her attention and convince her, or if I say I have a boyfriend, there are guys who are suspicious about it asking few questions n I get busted lol Eventually they know I faked a boyfriend n blame me... I'm not saying every guy is like that. I think most of guys who ask a girl's number would just go away if she says no thanks. but I experienced few creepy guys before,,haha well I have to say its my personality too that I somehow just feel really bad to say no in person.. but agian, there are many creeps out there!! anyways sorry haha ;(
cheww13 Posted April 30, 2013 Posted April 30, 2013 When I met her she touched my left shoulder twice. We talked to each other pretty close, but then we couldn't hear each other because we were listening to a band. She even told me her ex-boyfriend used to live at the same city where I went to college. One thing I noticed is that she texted me at 11:20pm last night after I texted her at 10pm. That tells me she's willing to text me late at night. But you're right she could be just kind it was before you asked her out when she texted you back 11:20? maybe she was mildly interested, then she just decided whatever? because she at least replied you. I wouldn't bother text a guy back if I have no interest in him.. its not even that I will see him occasionally for club things or whatever. she hasn't texted you back about meet up?? if shes busy, she will def get back to you tonight or even tomorrows ok. maybe she wants time to think about it...lol who knows but when she get back to you, she doesn't mention about it nor ask you out, means shes not that into it i guess.
Author flashx80 Posted April 30, 2013 Author Posted April 30, 2013 it was before you asked her out when she texted you back 11:20? maybe she was mildly interested, then she just decided whatever? because she at least replied you. I wouldn't bother text a guy back if I have no interest in him.. its not even that I will see him occasionally for club things or whatever. she hasn't texted you back about meet up?? if shes busy, she will def get back to you tonight or even tomorrows ok. maybe she wants time to think about it...lol who knows but when she get back to you, she doesn't mention about it nor ask you out, means shes not that into it i guess. Yes, it was before I asked her out when she texted me at 11:20. But it's all good know. She said she's available Weds and Thurs. I guess I read too much into it
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