Is she into me or am I being fooled again?

[Ryman]

(This will be long winded but I had a bad experience my last time and want to avoid that again so thank you!)

 

First off just to set up my side of things Im a 22 year old thin guy who has been called "a heartbreaker" by a decent amount of girls, when I asked one why she called me that she said "Just look at you, you look great" so I assume Im good looking lol, I also consider myself a pretty funny guy. The reason Im asking this is because I waited too long with the last girl and DO NOT want to do that again. So getting your opinions will make this easier . Ok now that you know who I am...

 

(This will be long =p)

 

I have a friend in the Marines who was down for the week, so when I went to meet him and his wife I dressed nice and headed out. Little did I know he brought his friend(the girl Im asking about) along so I saw her for literally one second, gave her a polite handshake and said "nice to meet you". Then we all went to a restaurant together where she was sitting next to me and everytime she would laugh she would be all over me.

 

Later that night they were all going to a salsa club where she kept asking "youre going right? you should go", I wasnt expecting the club and cannot salsa dance for jack so I said perhaps. My friend however told me "Dude she wants you to go Ill even cover the entrance fee for you" and practically gave me the green light. While at the club she was pretty much in my ear the whole time she wasnt dancing, if she had to say something 95% of the time I was the only one she told, even over her best friend(my Marine friend). Also I by far danced with her the most that night, I didnt want to dance and embarrass myself but she kept grabbing my hand and leading me out. When I said I wish I knew how to salsa dance she offered to teach me and we exchanged #s. So the night ends, everyones leaving she shakes her best friend and my other friends hands, and gives me a hug and kiss on the cheek.

 

Fast forward to one week later. We planned to go out to boomers together just to hang out and get a feel for each other I guess(It felt ALMOST like a first date lol), throughout the night she was very touchy feely as was I, Id have my hand on the small of her back a lot, shed hold my wrist and if we high fived wed hold hands for like 2 seconds longer and she was also laughing throughout the night and just having a good time . She destroyed me at mini-golf which was embarrassing(the wind was in my eyes ) but when we got to the go-karts she said if she wins, I have to buy her dinner to which I agreed. Needless to say I won but offered to pay for dinner anyways( I make $$ so its all good).

 

Dinner went pretty good, we laughed, had a good time, told jokes, shared food and blah. Anyways by now its 12:40 and randomly she throws out "You know my curfew is 12:30 right? Thats when my dad wants me back, great first impression (my name)"(She said that in a flirty way lol) and I said something like "Why would you tell me something like that now?.. isnt it a little late?" She just laughed and said hes really relaxed and will be ok with it. Idk though lol.

 

Anyways I dropped her off, talked to her for a min out of the car, gave her a solid hug and left. Now I was planning on texting her the next day saying I had a good time but she beat me to the punch, about 10 mins after I dropped her off I get a text from her reading "thank u :-) i really had a good time!" to which I responded in kind when I got home.

 

I should also add that she asked if I was dating anyone and asked about my past girlfriends, and we were way way flirty with each other verbally as well as physically, from compliments to teasing. I know that when you compliment a girl not interested the make a polite "aww" or roll their eyes, but she seemed genuinely happy when I told her things like she didnt really need any make up or she had nice hair so yea..

 

My question is, should I ask this girl out on a serious date and does it seem like she likes me or am I being fooled again? She wants me to come to her bday party at a club somewhere but I dont get payed until after it.. so I was thinking of taking her to dinner and a drink after(shes turning 21).

 

So yea, lemme know if you think that this sounds good, would prefer not to have a repeat scenario of the last girl.

Edited April 29, 2013 by Ryman

[pyramid]

She's into you. Ask her out. Go to the bday party, I don't care if you have to borrow $.

[Ryman]

Awesome, Ill figure something out. Thanks!!

[ITw]

She's into you. Ask her out. Go to the bday party, I don't care if you have to borrow $.

 

She's into you. I agree 100% with this.