LoLWut Posted April 29, 2013 Posted April 29, 2013 I've recently let a girl whom i have known for over a year know that i like her. She rejected me by saying the reason she came over (she's a foreigner) to my country a year ago was because she got dumped by her ex bf whom she had had a long and serious relationship with (6, 7 years) but she still very much loves him. I don't know the full extent of the story, but basically she wanted to marry but his career wasn't doing too good, and when it got progressively worse, he dumped her. They are also no longer in talking terms so i'm not sure why she's not willing to let go. She's contracted to work here for at least 3 years (2 more to go) and it's a 6 days a week job and from what i heard, it's really taking a toll on her. She's always tired by the time she gets home and what little time she has left, she'd really rather sleep in or rest at home. Any dates that i plan, i have to make it 1 or 2 months in advance. How do i get closer to her? I don't wanna give up on her yet. But she also told me if i'm going out with her in hopes that she would eventually change her mind, she would stop seeing with me. She can only offer me the position of a normal friend. What can i do to win her over and how do i get her to have more time? I was thinking of maybe i could do her chores for her but we don't live together obviously and we're not emotionally there yet Help
Mrlonelyone Posted April 29, 2013 Posted April 29, 2013 The thing is you really can't win someone over. Just be your own sweet self and if they like you for who you are they will come to you. They know you like them, they know how to find you, just let them come to you. If they don't then it wasn't meant to be.
JessieJ08 Posted April 29, 2013 Posted April 29, 2013 Just Keep moving. Girls like this usually want guys they cant have. Sorry Im sure if you said you weren't interested she woud all of sudden take interest in you
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