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9months on and still not happy.. At all.


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I'm not sure how many people reading this will remember my story.

 

In the most basic terms.. A horribly messy end to a friendship.

 

It's been nine months since she spoke to me in any kind of a friendly way and still I feel horrible. I feel sick if ever I see her, I still regret horribly the way I acted, I still miss her, and feel like my life would be a thousand times happier if her and I hadn't fallen out again.

 

I don't know what I can do. I just feel broken.

 

I'm kinda seeing some other girl, but the feelings are incomparible. I feel nothing even similar for this girl as I do for the girl I came here because of. Should I just break it off with her, or carry on having the bit of fun I do with her, or what?

 

I just want to feel what I felt for that special girl, again.

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You really need to break it off with this new woman.

 

Not only are you comparing her to your ex but you've also come to the conclusion that your ex was 'better'. That's really not fair on her. If she's into you then it's only fair that you tell her that you cannot go on before she invests time and energy into someone that regards her as '2nd best'

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Don't do the selfish thing, do what is right. Would you want to be 2nd best?

 

You still need some healing to do.

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