robaday Posted April 29, 2013 Posted April 29, 2013 Its been 8 months since we finally broke up. Last year when it happened I tried twice to try and fix things and at her insistence let her go - she had cut all ties with me and told me to move on. 4 months back she started sending horrible messages to me, like really bad, was really surprised cause Id tried to work things out with her and it was her who didnt want to. I calmed her down, she wanted to see me but I declined (something to do with her threatening to assault me!) Shes tried a few more times since, but the taste of those messages hasnt left me, and finally 2 months ago I told her I wanted nothing to do with her anymore, she mocked me saying we could have been on better terms. Ive done the hard part - let her go out of respect, even when she sent me abusive messages I was polite, and Ive done the hardest part of all and told her I dont care about her anymore and to leave me alone. Guess Im wondering why Im hurting over someone who caused a lot of harm and has shown no remorse whatsoever.....she told me my messages stabbed her in the heart when I told her to leave me alone, but doesnt she realise that the way she has handled things has been awful, that instead of laying into me, threatening to assault me, cutting all ties, she could have said, i care about you? How can someone choose to show so much anger at you and then be surprised when you finally cut the chords?
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