Really need some on this one..

[Savaris]

Hello!

 

Ok so, first I want to tell you guys how I met this girl because it's kinda funny.

 

On a night when I was driving home a girlfriend of mine told me to come to a club because it was her friends bday. I was really tired and it was like 01:00, i was on my way home but i said ok i'll come. So when i arrived there it was REALLY crowded. Everyone was pushing eachother and stuff. Anyhow, i saw this girl, this brunette who piqued my curiosity immediately. She looked like the girlfriend who invited me over a bit, so i was like huh. But at the same time I found her so attractive. I didn't do anything, i occasionally gave her the look but left it at that.. (dunno why lol). Anyways 3 days later my friend messaged me with hey, my girlfriend recognized you. So i was like wtf, do I know her? Seems like it was the girl i've been giving the look at the club lol. She was like, yeah she tells me you kept looking at her. So i was like okay, thats funny, what are the odds right.. So i said you can give my number to her we'll chat to which my friend replied with she doesn't give her number just like that to anyone but she said it's okay if you add her on facebook. So i did, and we started talking.. it's been like 1-1.5 week now and we have so much in common, it's almost scary. I can see that she flirts with me and she also initiates contact(we talk though facebook chat). So the same friend who told me about her messaged me today with yeah its going good between u and her huh? (she was at her place when she asked this) so I was like yeah..

She said, when are you gonna ask her out? So i was like okay ill ask lol

So when I asked she said if you have a ferrari its okay,lol she was joking obviously, thats how we tease eachoher but then afterwards she said, yes, we can do something sometime but her friend(the one who introduced) should also come, because she doesn't know me that well yet. So i said the same thing to her friend and she responded with yeah she needs to comfortable.

 

Long story short... I think this girl is interested in me but is shy, or just wants to take things slowly, she wants to feel me out and her friend being there can give that protection. My only concern now is that its gonna be hard to actually built that psysical attraction if her friend is also there.. and i just might end up in the friend zone if i act beta around her because of her friend-_-

 

So any advice on what I should do? I already agreed on it. I want to bring a friend along too so i can zone her out but yeah any tips would be welcome cuz i really like her. Also after how much time would it be wise to add some sexual flirt into the conversation? (so that she knows im romantically attracted to her and she won't put me in the friend zone) cuz we talk like A LOT and it might get too friendly if you know what I mean..I know it's a turnoff if it goes too fast but im not sure after how much time..

Thanks!

Edited April 28, 2013 by Savaris

[shiver23]

Just be yourself, and don't put too much stock into it. You're just getting to know each other. This girl is merely protecting herself, and as long as you are genuine and have a bit of patience, things could go really well for you. Friendly banter is fine, and if she's receptive it's good. If the friend feels uncomfortable but the girl is fine, then perhaps the friend will give you two some space. It's a first meet up, don't sweat it.

[Savaris]

Your absolutely right, thanks

[Noproblem]

She likes you, it's obvious

but like you said either shy or doesn't trust strangers that easily which is a good a thing....

 

 

It's a great idea to bring another guy to the date....make sure he is not hotter than you!

 

Anyway ....no don't start sexual texts yet, too soon for a shy girl!

 

But you can always tell her you like her! ( in case you two get along once you go out )

 

But hey expect the first time you will go out to awkward since she is shy!

[Savaris]

yes, your right:D i'm curious what'll happen O:D