Lonleyboy13 Posted April 28, 2013 Posted April 28, 2013 So my ex an I broke up a month ago.. I went LC thrn NC she then text to see how I've been and what I've been up too.. Then ignored me when I replied a couple hours later.. So the other day she text me again saying she missed me and had been thonkkng of me and apologized for everything .. I texted her back a few hours later due to being at work and not knowing what to wtite telling her I missed her too and but that I was hurt.. It's been a few days and I haven't heard from her.. Is she confused? Playing games?? Doesn't know what to say or ..... What Background - my ex is going through a rough with her mental health issues and decided it was best to withdraw completely from me rather then let me support her through it..
Sososad Posted April 28, 2013 Posted April 28, 2013 I don't know why any one does this it's so bloody cruel it makes my blood boil. The amount of emotions we go through from seeing there name/number pop up reading and debating what to reply and then to just be blanked !! Not one bit nice . You know better than us here . But it looks like she's playing a game Seeing if she's still got u under her spell. Next time ignore her . Let her see what it's Like and do not feel bad for doing it. Stay strong bro!
TaraMaiden Posted April 28, 2013 Posted April 28, 2013 In one word? Breadcrumbs. In more than a word? She keeps you hanging because it's what she wants, and where she wants you. Every time she feels a glimmer of guilt, remorse or even just egoistic curiosity, she will contact you to alleviate the guilt, soften the remorse and satisfy the egoistic curiosity. If you reply - under any of the above three provisos - she feels a whole lot better. Guilt - not so great, because if you're talking to her, you can't be hurting that bad, can you? Remorse - she did the right thing, it's ok, you're willing to be a friend in the Friend-zone.... Egoistic curiosity - Does he still think of me? Do I figure enough for him to reply? All designed to make HER feel better. Not you. Breadcrumbs = any little thing to make you think she's missing you, whereas in fact she wants to make sure you still miss her. Remedy: Read my No Contact Guide, in my signature. It's everything you'll ever need to help you heal, move on and get over her. 1
Author Lonleyboy13 Posted April 28, 2013 Author Posted April 28, 2013 I new I should ignored the message. I didn't want to at the time because I don't want to play the games she's been playing with me I oñly think its common curtisoy to reply but I guess I'm wrong very wrong.
Sososad Posted April 28, 2013 Posted April 28, 2013 Better off ignoring her if she hasn't the decency to reply!
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