Lysette Posted April 28, 2013 Posted April 28, 2013 So me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month now. But for about a week and a half he hasnt been texting me back trying to make time see me and has been less affectionate. i confronted him about this and he told me he's been busy with tennis and church work. I understood and decided to just let it slide for awhile but then it started bothering me more and more that he cant even send alittle "how are you" or reply to my goodnight texts :/ He used to be soo sweet and loving but now he cant even text me or hang out . Ive been trying to be a good girlfriend and tryig not to get sso mad about it . Its really bothering me. i feel like hes taking me for granted. how should i handle this situtation without sounding really needy and controlling.
TaraMaiden Posted April 28, 2013 Posted April 28, 2013 "He used to be soo sweet and loving".... That was in the first week..... right? Jeesh - 4 week relationship and you're already stressing? Honey, shift gears and go get some somewhere else! This isn't a BF, and there's no commitment here - time to party!! 3
Treasa Posted April 28, 2013 Posted April 28, 2013 You don't have a boyfriend. Get super busy and involved with your own life. Go out and have fun. If this guy shows an interest in you, consider going on a date with him. STRONGLY consider dating others. One month is nothing.
cheww13 Posted April 28, 2013 Posted April 28, 2013 a guy can never be too busy to reply text to a girl who he truely cares about. he's not even replying to just simple goodnight text,, get the message he's not being busy, he's being distant. stop all these now and make him work on you. 2
Divasu Posted April 28, 2013 Posted April 28, 2013 Not receiving "how are you" texts every day hasn't bothered me. Constant reassurance in the form of a text message when we don’t really need it. Not seeing each other for lengths of time, however, has bothered me in the past. I think either can be portrayed as needy behavior in the beginning, when you're more far along in the relationship it becomes less of an 'urgency'. Quality over quantity.
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