130R Posted April 28, 2013 Posted April 28, 2013 14 Days NC... Saw a picture of the ex today hanging out with her family today. She was wearing - A hat I bought her. - A dress I bought her. - Shoes I bought her. Everything except the engagement ring I got for her. When she broke up with me, she said I didn't support her. WTF? LOL This girl...
crimsoncurrent Posted April 28, 2013 Posted April 28, 2013 If you were complete NC, how'd you stumble on a pic of your ex? Any type of social media outlets can potentially compromise NC. 1
Author 130R Posted April 28, 2013 Author Posted April 28, 2013 Her mom and I are still friends on Facebook. Her mom didn't break my heart.
fucpcg Posted April 28, 2013 Posted April 28, 2013 I had dated a single mom of 3 kids for a year, and in that year I paid for everything we all did, including the kids. I added it up once after we split, I spent $6,000 in just the big purchases, like day at the amusement parks. Toward the end of our relationship I had a cash flow crunch and borrowed $1,000 from my ex, which again I spent on her and her kids around the holidays, which I paid her back for. She dumped me after a fight we had, then among other crap I heard her saying about me, she was saying I was a loser who would take money from a single working mother. Nice. I feel ya.
crimsoncurrent Posted April 28, 2013 Posted April 28, 2013 Her mom and I are still friends on Facebook. Her mom didn't break my heart. I would recommend you cut ties with relatives of hers, especially if you don't want to run into the same situation that motivated your post in the first place. I know complete NC is difficult, and many people often find ways to circumvent it, but for your own recovery, radical change is needed. Trust me, I haven't logged on to FB since Jan 19th. 1
ThatJustHappened Posted April 28, 2013 Posted April 28, 2013 Did you specify that she could only wear the gifts you gave her while you were in a relationship with her? If not, then I don't understand why that's shameless... 1
Amelie1980 Posted April 28, 2013 Posted April 28, 2013 If you gave her clothing why shouldn't she wear it? I can't actually wear any of the jewellery my ex bought me but I guess dumpers feel different.
Seachelle1 Posted April 29, 2013 Posted April 29, 2013 I wear clothes from my ex. And he dumped me. And I totally went to third base with someone else while wearing one of his favorite shirts... On the serious side I threw out anything that had emotional value.
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