Longball1 Posted April 28, 2013 Posted April 28, 2013 I've been going to this gym for several months and started seeing this one chick at the gym same time every time I go to the gym during the week. There are several occasions that i think this girl likes me or wants me to approach her. One time I was doing squats with a barbell, and she was on a machine behind me. There were four squat stations that created a square. I facing toward one of the other squat station. She wanted to use that squat bar directly in front of me. But...a dude told her he was using it already (damn him!). Now, she didn't bother using the other two next to me. She wanted the one in front of me. This next one happened multiple times, most recently three days ago. Though, she could just be using it because it's an exercise i see her routinely do. It was at the cable section of the gym. I was doing cable crossovers and she sat for some shoulder exercise right next to me. But before that, I saw her walking toward her location in the mirror. She looked at me the whole time toward the seat, in the mirror. It was the first time I've seen her up close. She was gorgeous. Anyway, she took her time doing her exercise. I glanced at her though trying to keep focus on the workout. Lastly, when I finished my workout, she was talking to some guy who has been trying to build something with her the last couple of days I've seen them talking, I walked by her and she and I locked eyes, very short and quick, like I caught her eye or something. So, should I be talking to this chick or am I taking this too deep? I am a nervous guy and don't even know how to approach a girl at a gym..I've seen this chick at the gym for 2-3 months now and have never said a word to her.
Feelin Frisky Posted April 28, 2013 Posted April 28, 2013 I know the feeling. I wouldn't give the same stern advice as the poster above. No risk, no reward.
PogoStick Posted April 28, 2013 Posted April 28, 2013 I don't see any signs there. It's normal to exchange glances, and when you workout sometimes you end up next to somebody. How are you reading anything from that? Still, nothing is stopping you from starting a conversation.
gym1 Posted May 8, 2013 Posted May 8, 2013 Hey oh goodness guys can be such cowards sometimes.. How do i know? because my situation is so similar.. Take a ladies perspective.. why not smile if she smiles back, you are welcome... you are good to go.. If you don't try then you will never know.. It can start with a smile and build up from there... Im in the same situation arghhh soo annoying because i feel a current when he looks in my eyes...lol but i will never smile or say hi because im shy...I wish he would make the move first...just try u wont regret it
aliast Posted May 9, 2013 Posted May 9, 2013 I was always told hitting on women at the gym is a no no. However locking eyes, smiling back, etc could lead to something. Keep it playful like that and maybe you'll get lucky and happen to be walking out at the same time. Then strike up that conversation.
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