Pompeii Posted April 27, 2013 Posted April 27, 2013 I'm trying to get a particular girl out of my mind. For some reason, I think about her multiple times a day and it's getting maddening. I like her because she has an awesome personality and I've never really met anyone as wise, insightful, funny, and eloquent as her. Not to mention, she's gorgeous. Anyway, I want to forget about her because I know she's out my league. I'm pretty sure she only likes hot guys, though. I feel like we're on the same wavelength but unfortunately, it just can't happen. Anyone have any tips?
JuneJulySeptember Posted April 27, 2013 Posted April 27, 2013 I'm trying to get a particular girl out of my mind. For some reason, I think about her multiple times a day and it's getting maddening. I like her because she has an awesome personality and I've never really met anyone as wise, insightful, funny, and eloquent as her. Not to mention, she's gorgeous. Anyway, I want to forget about her because I know she's out my league. I'm pretty sure she only likes hot guys, though. I feel like we're on the same wavelength but unfortunately, it just can't happen. Anyone have any tips? Just imagine that she had all of the same qualities that she has now, but that she was fat and ugly, and a bad dresser with bad hair. Then, you wouldn't think nearly as much of her, would you? Almost everybody attractive can be broken down without their looks.
tbf Posted April 27, 2013 Posted April 27, 2013 If she's single, ask her out. If she accepts. Win. If she rejects, this might help get over her.
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted April 27, 2013 Posted April 27, 2013 I'm trying to get a particular girl out of my mind. For some reason, I think about her multiple times a day and it's getting maddening. I like her because she has an awesome personality and I've never really met anyone as wise, insightful, funny, and eloquent as her. Not to mention, she's gorgeous. Anyway, I want to forget about her because I know she's out my league. I'm pretty sure she only likes hot guys, though. I feel like we're on the same wavelength but unfortunately, it just can't happen. Anyone have any tips? It's your age bro. Wait til you get to 25+. You'll be forgetting girls with ease. Oh and also, there are no leagues. Just ask her out.
outsidethebox Posted April 27, 2013 Posted April 27, 2013 I'm pretty sure posting about her won't help you forget her. 1
fortyninethousand322 Posted April 27, 2013 Posted April 27, 2013 If you're anything like me, you might not ever get over her. I still have feelings for the last girl I "dated", even though she played games with me and the like. I can go through short stretches (a few weeks or so) without thinking about her, but then something happens and I think about her. Last week it was because I saw a girl who from the back looked exactly like her (mostly hair, height, body type, skin tone). So it made me think about her. Sucks though...
JuneJulySeptember Posted April 27, 2013 Posted April 27, 2013 If she's single, ask her out. If she accepts. Win. If she rejects, this might help get over her. Interestingly enough, rejection will add fuel to the fire and make things much worse. Of the women I had it bad for, went for and got rejected by, I still have pangs for them. For the ones I just had crushes on but didn't act on, there are no bad feelings, so it tends to fade quicker. I do think of some of them every now and then, but it's never in a bad way. If you're anything like me, you might not ever get over her. I still have feelings for the last girl I "dated", even though she played games with me and the like. I can go through short stretches (a few weeks or so) without thinking about her, but then something happens and I think about her. Last week it was because I saw a girl who from the back looked exactly like her (mostly hair, height, body type, skin tone). So it made me think about her. Sucks though... Women almost always make it worse for undesirable men who are into them. Women who have rejected me play games with me and always leave the door open that they might still be interested. I have some stories of this sort of behavior that is REALLY bad. It's really their job to erase any shred of doubt by hammering the nail in the coffin. It's the least they can do. They have the favorable position.
fortyninethousand322 Posted April 27, 2013 Posted April 27, 2013 Women almost always make it worse for undesirable men who are into them. Women who have rejected me play games with me and always leave the door open that they might still be interested. I have some stories of this sort of behavior that is REALLY bad. It's really their job to erase any shred of doubt by hammering the nail in the coffin. It's the least they can do. They have the favorable position. Yeah. I do think it was kind of my own fault too. I didn't kiss her that one night early on when I should have and wanted to (I was scared of being too forward). But she would suggest things we should do together (a sign that a girl is interested) and she would actually follow through on them. So we were more than friends but less than in a relationship. Whatever that means. And it was that last little step she wouldn't go along with. She's overseas now, but that still doesn't stop me from thinking about her. 1
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