AKisBaked Posted April 27, 2013 Posted April 27, 2013 Even though the weather is beautiful, sky is clear, blue sky.. im STUCK AT WORK and just dreading it.. .. Yesterday night I went out with a few friends and it was a great night! But something started making me think of my ex... maybe because we had a conversation about relationships, hooking up and such. I felt tempted to contact my ex when i have been NC for a month now. But I didn't contact her afterwards. (good for me ) But while going home (went home really late at night) While going home last night I couldn't help but think about what she was up to.. I guess when your still up and out at 3 am your mind starts to wonder... This morning I still couldn't get her out of my mind I don't know why last night and today its affecting me so much.. I never broke NC but I guess just the talks I had with my friends yesterday made me start to think about things... Today is a down day... even tho the weather is nice.... Any suggestions to get over this hump?
fiftyofsomethin Posted April 27, 2013 Posted April 27, 2013 I mean everyone has certain little pleasures that they enjoy doing to put them back into a good mood. For me, it's just driving around with the windows down and the sunroof open blasting my favorite music. Nothing seems to make me happier. But for you, honestly just think about what makes you the happiest. I know you said that you are working, so obviously something like driving wouldn't exactly be possible, but maybe just something simple like if you have a break, decide to take it outside and just admire anything small you notice. Living in the moment and enjoying the small things in life are ways that I have found seem to put me in a pretty damn good mood.
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