killerlooks Posted September 21, 2004 Posted September 21, 2004 Do guys date single moms. I am a single mom with 3 kids. I own my own home, have my own car, pay my own bills and my kids have a relationship with their dad. Can you let me know if you would be worried about dating a single mom and why and what would take that fear away.
Papillon Posted September 21, 2004 Posted September 21, 2004 Depends. I know of a 64 year old single mom with 3 kids and who has her own home and car.... You have children. They ARE going to act as a filtering mechanism, but in your case it's a good thing. Guys who aren't ready for kids will probably date you, but will probably not commit. Those are not the men you need.
Author killerlooks Posted September 21, 2004 Author Posted September 21, 2004 well, I am 36. So how will I know the difference between someone who doesn't want commitment and soemone who does. I also find guys that are younger than me attractive (28 - 34) . does this make it more difficult.
Papillon Posted September 21, 2004 Posted September 21, 2004 Well, 'most everyone finds younger specimens more attractive. 36 ain't that old. I'm going to talk from my own perspective. I'm a single guy, 27 years old, attractive, and reasonably smart (for a "thirdworlder African" - never mind that, just ranting in general). Anyway, I happen to adore well-groomed older women. I've noticed as I've grown older I now look for wedding rings , I guess that's part of getting older. Older women hold my stares much much more easily, I think they are more comfortable with their bodies (well, so I've heard I have yet to find out for myself , and they are much more proactive sexually). Younger women just tend to, I dunno, it's hard to describe......younger women just tend to "remould" themselves too easily, in a way it's an attribute that irritates me. It's not so much the age gap...but if a women LOOKS "worn out", then automatically my juice valves shut off. But a lady, the same age, who is well groomed, stylishly dressed, with a trendy haircut, and who walks with confidence....she'll have my eyes undressing her for much longer than a younger girl would. Younger people are too generic. Been there, done that. Thing is, I don't know if I want children of my own...if a woman has kids, it will make me think a lot harder about commitment. But it's not to say I won't date her. Hell no. I'm the kind of guy who hyperfocuses on the woman he's with. It would be a hell of a ride, ma'am.
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