We're on/off,complicated,after we ended it again,he said he really cares about me.

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I'll begin saying that this has been going on for almost 7 months now.And I've been trying to figure it out on my own, but it's really hard.

 

So,I met this guy at a party.And we made out,but things were light.I didn't want anything from him.After that,for a week,he was the one who was texting me,and we went to another party togheter.Things we're going good,but after that he stopped texting,so I texted him.He was going through a complicated time,so I texted one more time,and I saw it was going nowhere,so I gave up.I was pretty upset.

 

Then one week later,he asked me out.After that,things we re more than great.It was holiday,we talked almost everyday,he called me,we were going out,we spent the christmas togheter,and then we spent new year's.

We had some issues then,but we figured them out.

The day after,I was feeling down,I didn't know where I stand with him,and I didn't want to be like that anymore.So I kinda gave him an ultimatum,like,i think it's time to figure out where we are,cause I don't like this situation.I knew he had some really big personal problems,and that was an argument for him in saying that he doesn't want a relationship right now,he wants fun and "well..you know...we could;ve keep this like this some more..."

 

So I ended it.After that,I heard about him that he had a family tragedy,so I sent him a text,saying I'm sorry,and he answered really nice.After that,one day we bumbed into each other when we were out,and he came right to me,and we stayed all night together.He said he needed me,and he's really happy to be with me&co.

 

2 days later he texts me that thing are too complicated,he can't explain,and he;s sorry.And I couldn't help myself but try to talk to him,but it was pointless.I knew this was something,and I couldn't let go.

 

Again,one day, we were at a party,and in the morning,the inevitable happened.He said he really cares about me.And we stayed togheter all morning(late morning actually).And after that,when we said goodbye,he kissed me.Then,boom,again, nothing.Not even a text,nothing.

 

We see each other almost everyday,but it's just "hi".I know he meant it,but I can't do it anymore.I don't want to pressure this anymore,but I can't forget him,cause I really care about him too.I know he has a lot going on,but I don't know.I can't say he';s staying with me for SOMETHING(cause we didn't go there,it wasn;t about that).I really don't know which way to go.

 

God,believe it or not,I tried to make it short.

[outsidethebox]

So you want to know if something is there even though he just says hi?