SoleMate Posted September 25, 2004 Posted September 25, 2004 Thing is- my bf is EXTREMELY sexually conservative about various things to do with sex...being open about sex, and trying new things are NOT his cup of tea...even talking about fantasies, what our desires are or being knowledgable about sex is "peverse" to him. Wow, he sounds like a real loser! I can't see you being happy or satisfied with him for much longer. He seems to have a very negative view of sex. Any chance all those "one night stands" only lasted one night because the women were so disappointed by him sexually?
humph.. Posted September 26, 2004 Posted September 26, 2004 that's the thing- he's AWESOME in bed, not all the girls he slept with were al one night stands, he has had a few relationships before me, but i'd say a fair few of the girls before me were also one night stands. he claims they were all girls he knew, or were friensd of friends at the time, he never picked up strangers in clubs and took them home (hm..still a one night stand is a one night stand..) he hasnt got a problem with doing stuff in bed together but he has a really seriously negative view on anything that's the slightest bit outside the norm (like sex toys, porn, talking about fantasies or desires..). if hes flipping channels and theres a movie on with a love scene (people naked etc) he will quickly change the channel and go "ugh"..! i get the feeling its more because of ME than himself...the idea of me thinking or feeling sexual things makes me somehow slutty to him? i dont know. he even said to me once, i dont want you thinking about sexual things when im doing things to you, because it means you have thought that way about other people in the past before me..(!!!) this guy has a serious problem with me having a sexual identity i think.
Jilly10340 Posted September 26, 2004 Posted September 26, 2004 This guy sounds like he has problems that he needs to deal with. He seems to be extremely jealous and stuck in the 1950's when it comes to womens sexuality.
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