SiaLv82 Posted April 26, 2013 Posted April 26, 2013 I been thinking about this one guy in particular a lot as of late. We had become friends and sort of had this "grey area" type friendship, where we weren't exactly just friends but not exactly dating either. We ended up getting into a huge fight and everything sort of dissolved. I took him off my FB and then at some point he added me back only for me to delete out my entire account completely. He moved west to finish his residency program and I am just sort of wondering how everything is going for him at this point. I sort of want to add him back and have been on his page a few but have hesitated to send off the request. I don't want to come off sort of nutzy since it has been over two yrs. What do you guys think? To be real: I really want to add him to catch up but don't know if he would be interested in the same.
sillyanswer Posted April 26, 2013 Posted April 26, 2013 I don't want to come off sort of nutzy since it has been over two yrs. What do you guys think? It already sounds nutzy, whatever that is. Too much drama.
outsidethebox Posted April 26, 2013 Posted April 26, 2013 You were pretty mad over a period of time it looks like. The "catching up" will bring that up again. Yeah, I know for awhile you would try not to but it would. Not a good idea unless you had intentions to say how sorry you are or something and try to restore way things were.
xpaperxcutx Posted April 27, 2013 Posted April 27, 2013 What might you hope to gain if you do end up having him back in your life? Do you want friendship or something else? Usually if you don't know what is it you want from another person, it's best to leave the person and the past alone. Trying to dredge it up is like digging yourself an emotional well, one which if you fell down into, you might have a hard time digging yourself out of.
Author SiaLv82 Posted April 28, 2013 Author Posted April 28, 2013 Oh, well just add him and get on with it! That is just what I did. We made better friends than anything else and I think we both realized afterwards that we had made a mistake by trying to make it something more. I miss the convos and all....see what happens now I suppose..... 1
Noproblem Posted April 28, 2013 Posted April 28, 2013 That is just what I did. We made better friends than anything else and I think we both realized afterwards that we had made a mistake by trying to make it something more. I miss the convos and all....see what happens now I suppose..... You never know what can happen!
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