Ended it because he's moving, wants no contact, no goodbye, wtf?!

[cookie123]

Hey guys,

 

So i was dating this guy i met online for 2 months. We met only 3 times because I had exams. He was soooo into me at the start, said things like, 'you and only you,' 'you mean alot to me' 'hopefully all the way, a real relationship and marriage' 'ur gorgeous' etc etc etc

 

then he was supposedly offered a job in cananda (we're from england) and he says he's gonna move and we should stop. No goodbye, nothing, just 'bye, i want no contact, i'm deleting ur number'

 

WTF?!

[Renard99]

I hate to say it but, to be that quick, I wouldn't be surprised if he had someone, or even multiple people, lined up.

 

I could be wrong......he may well be moving to Canada and just wanted to save any further heart break by continuing the relationship..... but to just slam the breaks on like that suggests to me he was playing his chances and, unfortunately for you, you lost out.

[CarrieT]

So i was dating this guy i met online for 2 months. We met only 3 times because I had exams. He was soooo into me at the start, said things like, 'you and only you,' 'you mean alot to me' 'hopefully all the way, a real relationship and marriage' 'ur gorgeous' etc etc etc

 

Marriage talk after three meetings? He was not into you. He was into the IDEA of you.

 

Be glad he is gone - you were definitely being played...

[cookie123]

Cannot believe i got played, this sucks lol, i find it funny tho too, i was never really that into the guy an wd have eventually ended it, but he seemed so into me.

 

He said he doesn't want to stay in touch, no contact, 'it's easier.'

 

I suggesting moving with him ( i just said that to see what he'd say) and he said 'no cos you wdnt like my cousins.' And i said ' how do you know?' he said 'u wdnt, trust me, end of.'

 

I was like ' can i meet u one last time to say goodbye' he was like 'nooo'

 

i said 'you've broken a piece of my heart' and he just said 'bye.' I said 'ok lol, bye, gd luck, no facebook, nothing?' he said 'nothing, i'm deletting ur number'

 

I dnt know who he cda had line dup tho cos he's not that attractive in my opinion. His money and good job are probably the most appealing factors.

[cookie123]

Also, i wd never break up with someone over text. i'd atleast make a phonecall. And i wd remain friends, its just decent.

[cookie123]

Also, if he was a player, cdnt he have continued playing for the next 2 months before he went to cananda?