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question for men about women offering to pay


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I usually pay for stuff at the beginning of a relationship and as it progresses its shared. I'm just old school that way. If a girl really insists, then I'll let it go. It's not demasculating it's just kind of....traditional I guess?

 

Usually if a girl offers to split, I'll say something like "you can buy me a drink later tonight" or something along those lines.

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Thank you all for your feedback and advice. It's been very helpful in giving me some clarification about this.

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A male friend told me that if a woman offers to pay it means he's not getting laid.

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A male friend told me that if a woman offers to pay it means he's not getting laid.

 

100% true for me! If I like a guy and want to see him again, I will let him pay If I know I don't want to see him again, I will pay for at least my half, if not the whole check.

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Its about reciprocation not about keeping score and doing things 50/50. If hes been treating you out, why not do something nice for him maybe make him dinner, get tickets to something, and etc. It doesnt have to be monetarily equal, just something to show you appreciate his effort.

 

If youre not interested in him then just dont go out with him

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