bbq Posted September 21, 2004 Posted September 21, 2004 Hi, I just need alittle insight about this: I've met this guy from a friend of mine for about a week or so, and we went out a couple of times, getting along pretty well too. Here are my questions: 1)How can I tell if he's interest in me or not? 2)During the week he called me about 3 to 4 times, but whenever I call him he always seem occupied or busy, so does that mean I should just wait for him to call me instead? 3)How do I express the interest of getting to know him without seeming desperate?(which I am not) 4)How long do guys usually wait before calling the girl for a 2nd or 3rd date?
toffee Posted September 21, 2004 Posted September 21, 2004 the fact that he asked you out is a good sign that he's interested. also, if he's calling you 3 or 4 times a week, he's interested. you've been out a couple of times, and known him only a couple weeks. don't rush things. i think you're doing good. why rush? if you want to know what his intentions are, ask him. tell him what your expectations are. it won't hurt.
DJ_Dork Posted September 21, 2004 Posted September 21, 2004 Originally posted by bbq Hi, I just need alittle insight about this: I've met this guy from a friend of mine for about a week or so, and we went out a couple of times, getting along pretty well too. Here are my questions: 1)How can I tell if he's interest in me or not? 2)During the week he called me about 3 to 4 times, but whenever I call him he always seem occupied or busy, so does that mean I should just wait for him to call me instead? 3)How do I express the interest of getting to know him without seeming desperate?(which I am not) 4)How long do guys usually wait before calling the girl for a 2nd or 3rd date? GREAT, finally a woman that knows how to communicate in a logical sense. other women should take some cues from you. so let's answer your questions... 1) he's interested in you if he calls you to go out/hang out with him. unlike women, men do not ask you out because they're bored. 2) it means he is "pretending" to be busy.. hint hint this is what guys do. nothing against you, we guys like it when girls call once a week. 3) ask questions about him. if you really want to show real interest.. ask sex questions. we guys like that and it clues us that you want some. do it only if you want some from this guy. The big question you ask: Is he interested? and the big answer: Yes. 4)seems like this guy is doing everything by the "book" he'll most likely call you 3-5 days after the previous date.
bbq Posted September 23, 2004 Posted September 23, 2004 So does that mean if he doesnt' call within 3 ~ 5 days he's not interest? Since everytime I phone he seem somewhat occupied, I really don't want to call him myself.... Maybe I should just wait and if he doesn't call back I'll just forget it.
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