What do I do when she does contact me?

[turnerik]

My ultimate goal is to get her back. We dated for 3 1/2 years. She's 18, I'm 20. We broke up a month ago. We hung out Sunday. Had a great time. She asked me not to date anyone else, and she promised to do the same. ( I know she is telling the truth) I assume she will contact me soon. I stopped contact with her after our date. When she does text me, should I respond, and when she does ask,to hangout, should I,agree to it,or no? I don't know how strong I am to say no, or not respond, but if it gives me a better shot at getting her back, I'll do it!

[barky2]

Honestly your going to hear a lot of mixed reviews " your young " blah blah.

 

What caused the breakup?

 

I take it she broke up with you?

 

You need to carry on with your life without looking back to become more attractive in her eyes.

 

But dont fake it.

 

Get busy!

 

And her saying oh don't date anyone is just keeping you around incase something BETTER doesn't work out. Harsh but true.

 

Don't pass up an opportunity to do anything because someone told you to do so.....especially an ex!

 

I know you want her back.

 

Only she will change that.

 

OK so what do you do is your question.

 

You don't answer her call. Let it go to voicemail. Your busy with your life.

 

Shoot her a text a few hours later and say oh I just saw you called, I was really busy or my hands were tied, I'll give you a call later on.

 

Picture this, she called while you were playing baseball, you didn't check your phone till after the game and just about to jump in the shower to go meet up with some friends for pizza, and ull return her call after you get hone.

 

Picking up what I'm putting down? Stupid analogy but I think u get it.

 

Don't reveal to much when u guys do talk.

 

Play it smooth bro and ull get her.

 

Keep us updated!

[crederer]

If she doesn't want either of you seeing other people then why aren't you just together now? I think it's a question worth asking.

 

And, I would have, and did (in my own situation) say "no" to that. We're either together or we're not. If you're not, you can stick your D into anything you want.

[Infnitysign]

Don't be an option to her, but I can be wrong and she is waiting for you to make a move. Just don't hope for too much because then you'll end up hurting your own expectations.