polycube Posted September 21, 2004 Posted September 21, 2004 hey when the ex calls, should I act normal, i mean like nothing happened, i can completely act like nothing still make her die laughing on phone. I do want her to return but was wondering if this is the best approach. Im not mentioning us as a couple or asking her how she is doing just acting normal. what do you guys think? The thing is when i act mad, or when i have a "plan" on how to act to get a certain reaction when i dont get the reaction i expect i think damn i should have acted this way or this way.. when im myself i feel like this is really how i am, i find comedy in the worst of situations and that way i have no regret and if you are still laughing and joking about life i guess it makes them see your not doing so bad eh? opinions? she just called 5 minutes ago
johan Posted September 21, 2004 Posted September 21, 2004 Don't "act". Usually an act is either very transparent or else it's confusing, because you are showing behavior and emotions that aren't consistent with the situation you're in. Just be straight with her, keep focused on what's important to you in life whether she's around or not, and see what happens.
backspn Posted September 21, 2004 Posted September 21, 2004 Thats why NC is best right after a breakup. You both can heal then get back to each other and be normal again.
Author polycube Posted September 27, 2004 Author Posted September 27, 2004 so i went out of state for a week, my ex asked if she could take care of my dogs while i was away since we bought them together, she called me daily to see how the trip was going and when i got back she was the first to call and say hi. her entire family is in town and she has been extremely occupied with her family that she never sees sinse they are from another state. anyways why is she still calling if we agreed to stop calling each other. i think i should not have allowed her to take care of the dogs since now she thinks were in the friend zone again. I also dont think reality has kicked in since she has all her family in town to distract her. anyways any opinions?
Mr Spock Posted September 27, 2004 Posted September 27, 2004 Just be "Mr Hard" and your love life will soon pick up
WantanS4 Posted September 28, 2004 Posted September 28, 2004 If she calls me...... she's going to get my voicemail....... and I will be emptying my voicemail on a regular basis!
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