kgal Posted September 20, 2004 Posted September 20, 2004 Am I being inconsiderate? I broke up with a guy I had been dating online for about 2 months. I still care alot about him...it just would've been too hard to pursue things romantically at this time..and I felt like I would just be leading him on knowing that things probably couldn't work in the long run. Anyways...we would talk all the time on messenger...and now I'm sorta hesitating to let him see I'm online... He hasn't been on since I wrote the email stating how I felt...and last night, I said a few more things to him via messenger...so when he signed on he would see them. Do you think signing on and letting him see that I'm available makes me look like the "bad guy" here? I just don't want him to think that I'm not bummed over this too....but I still want to be friends and keep lines of communication open. I just don't know how he feels. Any advice would help. Thanks.
bluechocolate Posted September 21, 2004 Posted September 21, 2004 I just don't want him to think that I'm not bummed over this too....but I still want to be friends and keep lines of communication open. Then tell him that.... I just don't know how he feels. and ask him.
polycube Posted September 21, 2004 Posted September 21, 2004 youre telling me you never see him in person and its an instant messenger relationship? geez i thought i had it bad.
Author kgal Posted September 21, 2004 Author Posted September 21, 2004 Well we had planned on meeting soon. I just didn't want my family to flip out..that was one of the reasons I felt we needed to end things. I never even thought I would meet someone online that I would end up wanting to pursue something more with. I had always heard horror stories on the news..and didn't think that it could happen to me. I just ended up meeting someone whos heart really stood out to me....is that crazy?
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