Japser93 Posted April 25, 2013 Posted April 25, 2013 I have been writing like crazy the last couple of days trying to figure out what's happening in my head. I have had this a couple of times but the last time, it started about two weeks ago. I met a nice girl and we really seem to connect and like eachother. But since I know that she likes me and there is a possibility of starting a relationship together, I feel very anxious. In the morning I wake up with a sick and nauseous feeling in my stomach, this has been going on for two weeks now. I have had this before when I had a girlfriend: After being together for some months, I started to get the same sick feeling in my stomach. It would last for many weeks and sometimes It was gone for many weeks. I eventually had to break up the relationship and after I broke up I felt sick for months. Whenever I get close with a girl, this sick feeling comes back and I get afraid to start a relationship , it feels like I will never be able to start a relationship again.. I told the girl my story, just like I told you and I'm happy that she knows but the feeling doesn't go away. I think it is because in my mind, I do not feel good enough for a girl? It has always been a mistery. Maybe you know what this means? It can't go on like this, I don't want to hurt her. Please help me. Kind Regards, Japser93
Leegh Posted April 26, 2013 Posted April 26, 2013 It may just be bodily symptons of having anxiety. For example, if a person has to give a speech they may feel like what you have described. If you like her, give her a chance. Take it slow, you may surprise yourself and be relaxed!
ddc579 Posted April 26, 2013 Posted April 26, 2013 You probably have Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS). It's a completely harmless condition -- but basically, your stomach acts up whenever you get nervous or anxious. I say this because I have it and it gets triggered by nerve-wracking situations (especially dating). You should really engage in some stress-reduction techniques (like meditation or exercise), and you'll find the symptoms diminish, I promise.
Infnitysign Posted April 26, 2013 Posted April 26, 2013 Maybe the thought of being in a relationship with a girl turns your stomache, so why not go GAY and try dating a guy. This might help you a lot.
Poppy fields Posted April 26, 2013 Posted April 26, 2013 That sounds awful. Maybe someday you will feel worthy of love, and the nervousness you feel will be a good excitement and not a sad and scary one.
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