anthrogirl Posted April 25, 2013 Posted April 25, 2013 So I started to see this guy, nothing to serious I knew he was seeing another girl at the time we got together. But now it has gotten weird. He is in AA and so rightly so he has some issues and can get super stressed sometimes and just needs his time. I am ok with that. We started out as friends a couple months back, my friend is in AA and I was introduced to him by way of her and hanging out with all of them. I really started to like him and like 3 or 4 weeks ago we started seeing each other outside of the group, it started with just talking and texting then it moved into movie nights and making out. He really started to open up to me about his problems and I him. But then after this last time we hung out he was acting a little weird and hasnt talked to me since. He wouldn't return my texts or anything. Well I found out right after we hung out last he told the other girl he was with that he needed a break, but then the other day he completely broke it off with her. While I was hanging out over at his and his roommates house I guess, she is sort of friends with my friend and this other girl texted my friend to tell her what happened. He never really talked to me just said hi and thanks when I returned his movie and I hung out with my friend and his roommates. Is he freaking out or what do you think is going on? I am totally confused by him right now. I feel like I want to sit him down and talk to him about it but not sure how that would go over. Thank you.
Author anthrogirl Posted April 25, 2013 Author Posted April 25, 2013 Can somebody please help me out?
todreaminblue Posted April 25, 2013 Posted April 25, 2013 Can somebody please help me out? The only thign you can do is give him space, if he gets stressed out that is the best thing to do....he will approach you when he is ready too....best wishes....deb
OwlSoul Posted April 25, 2013 Posted April 25, 2013 Ignoring = saying stay away from me. It is never about positive feelings, or not knowing what he wants. Usually the person knows that there is no future of feelings, so starts ignoring.
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