Did he lose interest in me? What did I do wrong in the span of 2 hours?

[Kaylie96]

met a guy and we hung out last week. We made our and everything and he told me he had the best night of his life and that he really likes me. He's 20 and I'm 16. When he found out I was 16, he was sad but he said we could still hang out and kiss and stuff, but not date. He says he'd love to date but not until I'm 18, and we can have sex then. We hung out today but this time he seemed quieter and he didn't talk to me much. We made out at his house and it was nice but it didn't feel like it did when we hung out last week. Is he already losing interest in me? I'm sad! He said he was tired but I don't know if that's why he was acting less excited to see me. He's told me how great I am, I know he's not just hanging out with me to get laid or whatever. He's an awesome person, but I feel like I did something wrong today to make him like me less, he was super cool earlier today but then he got quieter. I like older guys, and he's cool with waiting until I'm 18, so that's not the problem. I'm just wondering what I did wrong between earlier today and later in the day that made him not talk or really look at me.

[Eggplant]

but this time he seemed quieter and he didn't talk to me much. We made out at his house and it was nice but it didn't feel like it did when we hung out last week. Is he already losing interest in me? I'm sad!

Men are hot and cold. This is how they are wired. One minute they are interested. They next they aren't. The worst thing you can do is try to pull them in forcefully. See his distantness and raise him. Wait for him to contact you. He needs to be the one pursuing you. Dating as a woman is a game of not freaking out, lol. Hope you've been to drama class. The freaking out when he goes slightly cold is perfectly natural. But you play it cool! Do not interrogate him about his change of mood. Be laid back. Don't profess your love or anything. He may keep pursuing. He may not. You've got other things to do too and other options.

[aburd123]

First, I think that you need to know that someone over 18 dating someone under 18 is illegal. Maybe that's why he acted that way when you told him that you were only 16. maybe he thought that you were 18 and that's why he came on so strong. Perhaps he is really truly interested in you and how he wants to be with you but can't because of the age difference....

 

I think you're best bet at this point is to keep talking to him, keep calling, keep texting , but keep it cool. Get to know him really well, be his best friend, and see where that leads then once you're 18 you're already there...so if he's interested he will feel more comfortable with you.

 

Good Luck,