Tdog123 Posted April 24, 2013 Posted April 24, 2013 Hey everyone, so I split up with my ex gf a few days before valentines day, she did the breaking up, and I had nowhere to go so. I had to stay living with her for about a month, and she then started to take advantage of the situation by going out almost every night of the week while I was at home with our child so then my dad said I needed to get out of there and so offered me a place to stay at his. I was so upset when I had to leave my ex gfs house I really didn't wanna go but like I said she was walking all over me. I cried my little heart out that night So I lived with my dad for about a month or so while I got myself sorted, I have now finally got my own place with my brother and this is the first night in here. Now I should be excited and all that but I'm actually depressed because I have done all of this before with my ex, we both first moved into our first house together and we lived together for around 4 years and we did it all together as a couple, now I have to start from square 1, and she isn't with me anymore and it scares me kinda, she was my companion my best friend and now I got to do it all on my own and to know that she isn't here makes me very sad. Anyway just thought I would share this with you guys and see what you have to say, I still love my ex and miss her so much and just wish things could be different but there you go that's life. I guess you could say this is the next chapter in my life
mtnbiker3000 Posted April 24, 2013 Posted April 24, 2013 I relate to a lot of this. I was with my ex for 3 years. We broke up in early Feb, and I couldn't leave our place for another 6 weeks. That was BRUTAL. And, yes, getting a new place by myself has also sucked. I am soo lonely and bored. Everything I knew in this town, I knew as a couple. Now, it's just me. And it's a small town, so not much else I can do except revisit places that hold memories.
Chevuron Posted April 24, 2013 Posted April 24, 2013 Everything is kinda of scary when things suddenly change and you have to start over. Take everything just one step at a time and remember to be good to yourself. I recently broke up with my ex and best friend of eight years in January and shortly after our break up he moved in with his new girlfriend. Things were really rough as we were planning to move in together and now I have to move out by myself. But, I'm taking everything one bit at a time. Don't always focus on the big picture--but don't sweat the small stuff either. There is also nothing saying that life won't pull her back into your life again. Life's weird and strange. My mom broke up with her love 10 years ago and then after those years they ended up together. Strange, weird, unpredictable life!
Am4Real Posted April 24, 2013 Posted April 24, 2013 Are you doing any better? Making progress at all? I relate to a lot of this. I was with my ex for 3 years. We broke up in early Feb, and I couldn't leave our place for another 6 weeks. That was BRUTAL. And, yes, getting a new place by myself has also sucked. I am soo lonely and bored. Everything I knew in this town, I knew as a couple. Now, it's just me. And it's a small town, so not much else I can do except revisit places that hold memories.
mtnbiker3000 Posted April 24, 2013 Posted April 24, 2013 Are you doing any better? Making progress at all? I dunno. Forward... Then backward. See my post from earlier today: Venting... That should clue ya in on how I'm doing Thanks for asking!!
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