annie83 Posted September 20, 2004 Posted September 20, 2004 Hi! I posted here a while ago: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t46891 I've learned a few things, thanks to everyone who replied and sent a private note and my friends here. The biggest thing I learned is that my ex is "punishing" me by enforcing no contact. I should be miserable and lonely and unhappy and should "get a taste of my own medicine". Well, I'm not. And I think his plan backfired. Take this as an example... I bought the ATV of my dreams over the weekend, but unfortunately, had to work all weekend too. My friend took it up to our old stomping grounds in my place, though. This also happens to be an area close by where the ex lives. He and our mutual friends decided to go down the hill and visit the ex. When they pulled up, my ex immediately noticed my Yamaha YFZ. He was impressed and then was told that it was mine!!! He didn't say much about it then. Later, I hear he also told one of our friends that I was going to kill myself on the thing. Take it to heart, guys. Yes, he's obviously a little uneasy that I have something like that. I don't think he'd mumble that I was going to die if he didn't at least care about me a little. He's also quite mad that I'm not miserable and poor. And probably very jealous that I have a nicer ATV than he does now. Don't let your ex bother you. If you meant anything to them at any point, they still care. And furthermore, if they're a truly heartless jerk who doesn't care, and only wants ill to befall on you, then they're immature and not worth your time anyway. There's a happy ending in your future, wether with or without your ex.
MassiveAtom Posted September 23, 2004 Posted September 23, 2004 Talk about getting a kisk in the pants! From my perspective and where I am right now. I think you're right . His plan backfired bigtime! What I particularly liked is the shot of hope I really need right now. The one from thepoint of view AFTER The breakup, not trying to rebuild something that's shattered beyond repair. Best of luck to you on that thing. I'm looking to get a two-wheeler myslef, Vulcan 750. mmmm baby! mA
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