Treasa Posted April 24, 2013 Posted April 24, 2013 My best friend of 16 years and I live together. Separate bedrooms (I like my space), no sex, no making out, maybe occasional cuddling. Lots of hugs, though. We are completely compatible. We're both vegetarians, we laugh a lot together, have a lot of similar hobbies (and enough different ones that we don't need to be together), and we amuse ourselves extremely well. One time, while waiting for an IMAX movie to start, we spent an hour shooting little candy wrappers between each other's hands which we shaped to be like goals. I mean, I am never bored as it is, and even less so when I'm with him. I'm the energetic, driven one, and he's the laid-back, chill one. In other words, if we do anything, it's because I say, "Keith, we're going to do this. Get off your ass." He's fine with it. He adores the hell out of me, and has ALWAYS been there for me. I trust him completely. He's amazing. He's one of the nicest people ever, and although I want to strangle him sometime (ok, more than sometimes), we rarely fight over anything of substance. At most, we bicker, and even that has decreased. All that's lacking is romance/passion and sex, although the latter could be rectified. I'm not interested in the former that much, besides cuddling on occasion. After 16 years, though, if we're getting along amazingly and can live together easily, I guess we're right for each other. He said he'd marry me anytime I want. He's found me attractive when I've been slender, fat, sick, crying, etc. He truly loves me unconditionally, and vice versa. Oh SNAP. I think I've been in a perfect relationship all along. 4
melodymatters Posted April 24, 2013 Posted April 24, 2013 Hmmm, that was interesting, but except for your comment about not really wanting romance with him (to paraphrase), I didn't see you actually mention anywhere if you were considering ramping it up with him. Are you ?!? Considering it, that is.
Author Treasa Posted April 24, 2013 Author Posted April 24, 2013 Hmmm, that was interesting, but except for your comment about not really wanting romance with him (to paraphrase), I didn't see you actually mention anywhere if you were considering ramping it up with him. Are you ?!? Considering it, that is. Well, I'm just not into romance in general anymore. It's not my thing. That being said, we are sweet to each other. Lots of hugs, he calls me beautiful, I tell him he's hot, etc. He just registered on LS today, actually. His username is Reiko. 1
melodymatters Posted April 24, 2013 Posted April 24, 2013 I'm surprised you're not inundated with replies !?! I've read many of your posts and you definitely seem like a smart, sane, cool to hang out with sort of person. It sounded to me a bit like you were...touching a toe in the water. Or, it could be just having fun, like "my best girlfriend would be a perfect wife because we both love labradoodles and Thai food" kinda thing. Since He's ON here now, I find myself holding back a bit. Funny how that works, eh ?
Mrlonelyone Posted April 25, 2013 Posted April 25, 2013 Sorry I was trying to start a new thread. Yeah consider that the best RL ships are based on real friendship. 1
Author Treasa Posted April 25, 2013 Author Posted April 25, 2013 I'm surprised you're not inundated with replies !?! I've read many of your posts and you definitely seem like a smart, sane, cool to hang out with sort of person. It sounded to me a bit like you were...touching a toe in the water. Or, it could be just having fun, like "my best girlfriend would be a perfect wife because we both love labradoodles and Thai food" kinda thing. Since He's ON here now, I find myself holding back a bit. Funny how that works, eh ? Aww!! I feel like that about you! LOL And no need to hold back. You are absolutely right with your observations.
Author Treasa Posted April 25, 2013 Author Posted April 25, 2013 Of course he knows all this. We talk literally all of the time. In fact, I just yelled into the other room, "Hey Keith, you've gotta read this reply." 4
clia Posted April 25, 2013 Posted April 25, 2013 Well, I'm just not into romance in general anymore. It's not my thing. That being said, we are sweet to each other. Lots of hugs, he calls me beautiful, I tell him he's hot, etc. He just registered on LS today, actually. His username is Reiko. Reiko Suave? 2
Author Treasa Posted April 25, 2013 Author Posted April 25, 2013 Reiko Suave? LOL Pronounced RAY-ko. We're into a lot of Japanese things. Him more than me.
Author Treasa Posted April 25, 2013 Author Posted April 25, 2013 Question, how do I find one of these relationships??? Id like one but I dont want a boyfriend either. I'll see if I can clone him for you. He only comes in black, though.
Author Treasa Posted April 25, 2013 Author Posted April 25, 2013 Erm...we have discussed all of this, at length; I'm well aware of everything in Treasa's post...I don't think that communicating these things to me was the point of it. You may want to take a moment, deep breaths, yoga, whatever and re-read before flying off the handle. I wubs you. 1
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