myname8 Posted April 24, 2013 Posted April 24, 2013 So how weird is this… last night I received a text from a random number saying “She has a new bf. Idk if you care but I am just trying to help. I know you well and if you and if you want her back you shouldn’t let her escape.” I tried calling the number and nobody picked up. I haven’t text back. I guess its somebody telling me my ex has a new bf in her life. Its been 5 months since out break up and I text her here and there but we have never talked about getting back together. I still have feelings for her but I don’t know how to take this. Could it be her writing this? Or its somebody trying to help or mess with my head? When we were together we would both get random text like this but we figured it was from the girl I was with before her. What should I do? What do you guys think?
Toddbt12y1 Posted April 24, 2013 Posted April 24, 2013 Ignore it. Keep focusing on your life. It is someone she knows or herself trying to cause trouble. 2
Chi townD Posted April 24, 2013 Posted April 24, 2013 Ignore it. You don't have the time to be playing these "Cloak and Dagger" BS games. And besides, if she ALREADY has a new boyfriend, how the hell is she going to escape? Isn't she GONE already? Hell, text back, "OOKKAYY? Are talking about Lisa, Julie or Karen?" J/K don't do that.... 5
HuffmanMontana Posted April 24, 2013 Posted April 24, 2013 There's a service that allows you to text from random numbers. Probably her trying to get you to chase.
Author myname8 Posted April 24, 2013 Author Posted April 24, 2013 Ignore it. You don't have the time to be playing these "Cloak and Dagger" BS games. And besides, if she ALREADY has a new boyfriend, how the hell is she going to escape? Isn't she GONE already? Hell, text back, "OOKKAYY? Are talking about Lisa, Julie or Karen?" J/K don't do that.... lol! maybe i should do that... I bet it's her. I mean if she does have a bf it bothers me since I still have feelings for her, but what can I do about it.
Chi townD Posted April 24, 2013 Posted April 24, 2013 Go with what "Cloak and Dagger" told you. She already HAS a boyfriend, which tells me that she's moved on. She's choosen someone else. So, now it's time for you to move on.
ForeverHopeful1 Posted April 24, 2013 Posted April 24, 2013 (edited) Ignore it and keep moving on! If it is a random texter, then she has a boyfriend so yeah, she has moved on. Ignore her, and ignore this text. If it is her texting and trying to get you to get her back, thats f-ed up and you should ignore her and move on. Thats just stupid of her if it is her and REALLY childish. To me, it doesnt matter if it is her or not... my answer is the same. Move on and ignore. Edited April 24, 2013 by ForeverHopeful1
iouaname Posted April 24, 2013 Posted April 24, 2013 My guess is that it's her, but if she's childish enough to send a text like that attempting manipulate you into winning her back then I think you're better off ignoring it. If she actually wanted to be with you, she should tell you that herself. If it's not her then it's just someone trying to cause problems, in which case - ignore it for sure.
fancy feast Posted April 24, 2013 Posted April 24, 2013 Troll, troll hard. ChiTown has the right idea.
AKisBaked Posted April 24, 2013 Posted April 24, 2013 If the text is saying don't let her escape? Hasn't she already seperated from you? How does the message make any sense? Boogles my mind.....
Author myname8 Posted April 24, 2013 Author Posted April 24, 2013 I would say that I have moved on and she asked me to be with her one time after the break up. I told her i was living my life day bye day... she wanted closure but I never gave it to her. I am usually the one that initiates contact and when i did all i want was for her to come over and you know. So i guess she got fed up of that and strated moving on. Now when i text her, she doesnt reply. She was here about a week ago picking up some stuff, I asked her to stay but she said she couldn't. I feel like i have moved on, but sometimes idk what to make out of it. I know its her and i feel like she is doing that to give things one more shot, to see my reaction, but i honestly dont have one. Pretty much i am just like, okay what can i do. Maybe with time i will regret it but right now my mind is blank about what i really want.
Chi townD Posted April 24, 2013 Posted April 24, 2013 If a person sent you a text stating that, "You won a million dollars! Just be in the dark alley at fifth and Main at midnight on the 22nd to claim your prize!" with no name or number, would you actually go? That text tells you nothing. Hell, it could have been texted to the wrong number. It doesn't even say your Ex's name! So, how can you be sure it's even about her?!?! Subject lines and nouns would have helped in this matter!
Author myname8 Posted April 25, 2013 Author Posted April 25, 2013 So this morning I wake up and I have a text from the same number with a picture of my ex and her new bf. It was a screenshot from her instagram. As a caption she put "Date night <3". I didn't reply to the text. Now I have clear that she has another guy. So confused.
Chi townD Posted April 25, 2013 Posted April 25, 2013 If it's driving you that nuts, then do a reverse look up of that phone number on the internet to find out who it is. Or, Even better!! Call your phone provider and ask for your number to be changed. Then, only give out that number to trusted folks.
iouaname Posted April 25, 2013 Posted April 25, 2013 That is SO obnoxious. Good on you for taking the high ground and not letting it get a reaction out of you. If you want, you should see if you can get the number blocked. You maintain so much dignity by not responding...
Author myname8 Posted April 25, 2013 Author Posted April 25, 2013 I was able to block the number, hopefully it works because the number is from that TextFree App. Yea, I don't respond because I don't see the point in it. No I don't want to change my number, I won't do that. It just bothers me because it's my ex you know, but I guess I will handle the situation. If they text me again I will proably send a message saying that this number has been disconnected etc.
Chi townD Posted April 25, 2013 Posted April 25, 2013 You seem so sure that it's your Ex. Why? Is this something that she might do normally?
Sososad Posted April 25, 2013 Posted April 25, 2013 That's pretty low who ever would stoop to that and try claim There helping I'd say it is your ex .. All she wants is a reaction give none.. But if u wanted to be funny and your ex doesn't know your status Just send back of you with a random Girl and say !! Think we both had a lucky escape thanks for the heads up were all happy now !!!
AKisBaked Posted April 25, 2013 Posted April 25, 2013 Whoever's doing this to you is no better than your Ex. They are pretty much trying to torment you by updating you with your past life, which they are trying to get a rise out of you and seeing if you will crack. Its a trick, don't give in. Don't give F*ck and just enjoy what your doing now and move on. One day karma is going to find them.
todreaminblue Posted April 25, 2013 Posted April 25, 2013 So how weird is this… last night I received a text from a random number saying “She has a new bf. Idk if you care but I am just trying to help. I know you well and if you and if you want her back you shouldn’t let her escape.” I tried calling the number and nobody picked up. I haven’t text back. I guess its somebody telling me my ex has a new bf in her life. Its been 5 months since out break up and I text her here and there but we have never talked about getting back together. I still have feelings for her but I don’t know how to take this. Could it be her writing this? Or its somebody trying to help or mess with my head? When we were together we would both get random text like this but we figured it was from the girl I was with before her. What should I do? What do you guys think? live your life......if it continues change your number....if you can block that number....if its private and it happens regularly get your number changed make your number unlisted.......i have been harassed by phone.i still get heavy breathers if ti becomes too frequent ill change my number..how i look at it is they have teeny tiny brains that are not satisfied unless they amuse themselves creating insecurity in others.......best wishes...deb
Chi townD Posted April 25, 2013 Posted April 25, 2013 live your life......if it continues change your number....if you can block that number....if its private and it happens regularly get your number changed make your number unlisted.......i have been harassed by phone.i still get heavy breathers if ti becomes too frequent ill change my number..how i look at it is they have teeny tiny brains that are not satisfied unless they amuse themselves creating insecurity in others.......best wishes...deb Opps! Sorry, that was me. I get asthma attacks sometimes. 1
todreaminblue Posted April 25, 2013 Posted April 25, 2013 Opps! Sorry, that was me. I get asthma attacks sometimes. lol next time ring after you use your inhaler.......and i wont hang up on you....smilin....deb
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