Harradin Posted April 25, 2013 Posted April 25, 2013 I have a few friends who are girls at uni and from school. I have no intention to have sex with them or even start a relationship with them because I don't find them attractive. So I say yes guys and girls can just be friends.
runningfar Posted April 25, 2013 Posted April 25, 2013 Guys and girls can be friends. I have said that to male friends.... But it's after not seeing them much, much longer. Does she say I miss you to her female friends after relatively short times? I would talk to her. It's not about she can't be friends with him, just discuss the lines that make both of you comfortable. My boyfriend and I know very well what we each find acceptable. That's just a discussion to avoid problems, not jealousy. If you're non accusatory, just asking her boundaries and sharing yours, and she's not up to anything it won't be a problem. I would also get to know the guy more. I think to tell whether people are truly friends or there's more brewing, that's the best way. No one will get edgy about you meeting or hanging out with someone they only see as a friend.
veggirl Posted April 25, 2013 Posted April 25, 2013 Well does she speak that way to her female friends? Does she text them allthroughout your trip too?
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