Do me and my ex still have hope?

[Darren_10]

Me and my ex was together for 7 months, it was up and down but mostly up. We split up for 2 weeks about 3 months ago, during them 2 weeks she said she was dating someone which obviously hurt my feelings. However she said she wanted me and I ran back towards her, we got on for a month until I saw her texting this guy. She told me she is meeting him to go the cinema and a meal, I told her that does this guy know about us? She said no. So obviously I flipped and finished it. I know I was in the right to finish this.

 

However I still very much love her, she loves me too. I decided to try and date someone else to move on. I told her that I love her and she says that there is no chance we will get back together. After she told me that I dated someone else, she texted me asking how the dates were going? I replied saying great, shes really nice. After a day she got her feelings out saying that it kills me knowing your dating someone, she said that we can't be friends unless you stop dating someone. I said that's just playing games with me. So I ignored her texts and still am for a week. I still very much love her, I know that I am getting played. But I guess I just want her back in my arms as I really care about her. Just what would the best option to be? Carrying on ignoring her until she realises what she has lost?

 

 

Cheers,

Darren

[Toddbt12y1]

She's playing games with you. She knows you were head over for her, and enjoyed you chasing(wanting) after her.

 

Only when your attention shifted to other girls, and these dates, and the prospects of losing someone whom she could always use to cushion her fall. To gain attention from you.

 

She is selfish. She can date, hurt you. But you cannot date?

 

Be glad it is over. I'd not be her friend. No...no hope...unless you want to be a doormat, and be used.

[flitzanu]

she told you there is no chance of getting back together.

[AKisBaked]

She sounds very manipulative and telling you to things or else she won't get back with you. She's just playing you. Her crying and all is just an act. Once you take her back she will be the total opposite and she will have the upper hand again and control the whole situation according to what she wants to do with you.

 

Now since she isn't getting your attention she is craving it back and your playing hard ball with her, which you should be.

 

I think you should just keep dating this new girl of yours and don't bother with your ex anymore. She is selfish and just wants to cause problems for you.