Is he still interested???

[Miss1122]

OP, take a look at your posts. Every post is a schedule of when this guy had sex with you. The rest of the time he is running around with friends. I'm not the brightest guy at this stuff, but you're supposed to be considered a friend at some point. Just guys? but what's your schedule for sex.

 

You only spoke of when you two had sex, and this guy's adventurous itinerary, not mentioning you two doing anything else at all. It's like a perfect scenario of a guy using you. Plus a manager where you work although you work a different shift.

 

Oh, and he doesn't message you while he's gone. I don't think I could come up with anything more if I tried.

 

Let me clarify. We only had sex once. He's been a gentleman and respecting me all the time. He picks me up and drops me off at my house. He knocks on my door not like other guys that just wait in their car. He also walks me to my door and doesn't leave till I get inside safe.

 

He takes me out on dates. Three dates were long dates. One was not too long because he was sick and just squeezed me in his schedule. The last date we had was a full day date. We hiked then had lunch after. Then we barhopped and did some beer tasting. We chilled at his house then he took me out to have dinner.

 

Another date was when he took me first to have some drinks at a place next to the ocean, then we did some oyster tasting. Then we had sushi for dinner. This one was about an 8 hour date.

 

One date was a sushi dinner at a fancy sushi restaurant. I love sushi. I've noticed that he takes me to sushi restaurants every date except once when I suggested to go to a restaurant that serves really good pho because he was sick.

 

I just want to clarify that he takes me out on amazing dates. He has paid for all and they were not cheap dates.

 

Also, we don't work for the same company.

Edited April 24, 2013 by Miss1122
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[outsidethebox]

Much better scenario. Not sure how that one sex made it into every post, but you did say it was good.

[SJC2008]

Let me clarify. We only had sex once. He's been a gentleman and respecting me all the time. He picks me up and drops me off at my house. He knocks on my door not like other guys that just wait in their car. He also walks me to my door and doesn't leave till I get inside safe.

 

He takes me out on dates. Three dates were long dates. One was not too long because he was sick and just squeezed me in his schedule. The last date we had was a full day date. We hiked then had lunch after. Then we barhopped and did some beer tasting. We chilled at his house then he took me out to have dinner.

 

Another date was when he took me first to have some drinks at a place next to the ocean, then we did some oyster tasting. Then we had sushi for dinner. This one was about an 8 hour date.

 

One date was a sushi dinner at a fancy sushi restaurant. I love sushi. I've noticed that he takes me to sushi restaurants every date except once when I suggested to go to a restaurant that serves really good pho because he was sick.

 

I just want to clarify that he takes me out on amazing dates. He has paid for all and they were not cheap dates.

 

Also, we don't work for the same company.

 

So he's spent taken you out on dates and spent some money on you. Now that doesn't mean he owes you anything but so far it seems like there's no balance in this courtship. Would it kill you to call him or text him every now and then? I just hope you're not one of those women who thinks your vag counts as your part of the effort in a relationship.

[Divasu]

We've been seeing each other for six weeks. We've been on four dates. He doesnt text me everyday. I dont see him every week. The last few weeks, almost every weekend he spent time with his friends going on trips. When he came back from each trip, he emailed me pictures from his trip.

 

We had sex for the first time on our fourth date which was two weeks ago. He's been continually initiating contact. Last weekend. He went skiing with friends. I didnt see him last week but we were in contact. While he was on trip, I didn't hear from him. I didn't try to communicate either. He's been the one initiating contacts.

 

He emailed me pictures of his trip last night, saying he had fun. I replied and he sent me another email today asking how's my schedule for this week. Every week around this day he always asks for my schedule but there were weeks that I didn't see him at all. Is he interested even I don't see him often and not plan dates every week?

 

Maybe he feels things are going too fast since you had sex and he needs to slow down? Maybe he's confused by it (sex changes the level of the relationship and he could be uncomfortable in this new level). Maybe he's dating other people.

 

He's showing some interest, and asking when you're free, so that's a good sign. If he starts getting weird about it (seeing you again), that obviously changes things a bit.

[Miss1122]

Maybe he feels things are going too fast since you had sex and he needs to slow down? Maybe he's confused by it (sex changes the level of the relationship and he could be uncomfortable in this new level). Maybe he's dating other people.

 

He's showing some interest, and asking when you're free, so that's a good sign. If he starts getting weird about it (seeing you again), that obviously changes things a bit.

 

He asked for my schedule. I told him I'm off thurs and Friday. He asked me out for Thursday but I said Friday is better for me. We're going out Friday night instead .

[BluEyeL]

He's clearly interested Miss, don't be worried, you are doing good!

[Yookie]

I think he's interested in you also but he's more interested in his friends since he rather spend the weekends with them. At this point he should start inviting you to meet some of them or come to some activity dates maybe?

[BluEyeL]

I think he should, but he's not there yet, so I don't recommend that she pushes, but finds her own interests/group of friends and get busy. Hopefully this will develop well, but we never know. It's not so far along.