turnerik Posted April 24, 2013 Posted April 24, 2013 It's nearly impossible for me. I go about 3 days, and then I always contact my ex. I constantly check my phone, Facebook, email, to see if she contacted me. I try to keep myself busy, but everything I do, it's a memory fab out her. The other day I drove to Iowa and back, just because we have never been there, so no memories. I know I got it bad for her. We have been separated a month, she says we aren't dating other people. I didn't plan on it, but she still told me that the other day. Every time we talk in person she gets emotional, me too. I just need help on how to maintain no contact. Once during our breakup I didn't have any communication for about 4 days, she texted me, wondering how I was doing. She's always on my mind, more so then when we were together. please help. We dated for 3 1/2 years talking everyday and seeing each other about 4 days a week!
steelpantherrocks Posted April 24, 2013 Posted April 24, 2013 dude, its the hardest thing in the world, its still pretty new so ya itll be hard to shake her memory or even harder to not communicate with her. youve prob heard it takes time etc etc, but really it does. one thing you need to remember is that everytime you contact her you will go right back to day 1. trust me i did this for nearly 6 months untill finally one day, i deleted facebook, instagram all other means of seeing her or communicating with her, and i just got easier from there. outta sight out of mind. dissapear for a while, dont drag it out, if theres potential to get back together then itll happen dont force it, just focus on you, easier said than done but truley youll feel loads better after a few weeks without contact. dont respond to her. did you break up with her or vice versa, how old are you and her. 2
barky2 Posted April 24, 2013 Posted April 24, 2013 Perfect advice from above. IT DOES GET EASIER! We all know how bad nc sucks. One day at a time. You give her an ultimatum either all or nothing. If she chooses nothing than you need to move on man. she contacts ignore it. ITS NOT EASY! But you need some time to clear your head Let her know you need time to yourself. Like stated above..if u keep breaking it ull be on day one for the rest of ur life. Post on here instead of texting her..or answering her. We will give you advice BC we are not in the situation and don't have clouded judgement. I PROMISE IT GETS EASIER!! 1
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